Ok so my boyfriend (Ian) just broke up with me yesterday and this was all after meeting his family and staying at his grams. the night b4 I stayed at his bros gf whos my friend and I told her I teased him on the way there saying what if me you and bri (his bros girl) had a 3some it was only a joke bc believe me I don’t like girls that way and he said ew that’s gross I don’t wanna think about it he knew I was joking but when I told her about it the next day she went and told his bro that I asked if she wanted to have one! and he got mad and talked about Ian and said he was mad at the whole thing which caused him to be upset with me so that’s one reason he ended it (she said he misunderstood what she said but yet she wont tell his bro that so he can apologize to Ian about it so I’m thinking she’s a trouble starter)
the other reason is he says I’m controlling which I don’t even notice its like yeah I get mad if he talks to other girl like most girls doo and yeah id rather have him home talking to me then at his friends where he barley texts me back. But I mean I don’t say no don’t do it but I let him know I’m upset. then the other thing is about his ex who everyone hates she’s a big druggie who I tried to become friends with and all she did was talk #### on how Ian was when they dated like in a way I didn’t believe it bc she is still in love with him but I still wondered but just like this girls so gross and we all make fun of her so she’s like our main joke which bothers him and iv tried to not bring her up but just today I deleted her # and MySpace so there’s no contact now. Neways after he broke up with me which was on our way to my house to drop me off he hugged me and rubbed my back then when we came in I tried to give him the clothes he left me and he said no keep them and then said that he’s not mad at me or hates me and he still wants to be friends and when he left he gave me a big hug and a little kiss. Then later I asked if he still loved me and he said he didn’t know how to answer that it was too hard of a question and that he was sorry. Then he went on to say that he just needed sometime to think and then we can talk. And I asked if we can try it again later and he said yeah sure. what should I do how should I act when I see him this weekend (bc he has to bring my mp3 player to me and get his hoodie)should I jus not talk to him till then or should I still send goodnight and good morning texts to show I care? how do I get less paranoid and controlling and start trusting more bc I know he loves me its just my ex lied and cheated alot and I was with him for 2yrs. so I still kind of think all guys will be like him..
HELP PLEASE I WANT HIM BACK!!!!
Thanks Tori
the other reason is he says I’m controlling which I don’t even notice its like yeah I get mad if he talks to other girl like most girls doo and yeah id rather have him home talking to me then at his friends where he barley texts me back. But I mean I don’t say no don’t do it but I let him know I’m upset. then the other thing is about his ex who everyone hates she’s a big druggie who I tried to become friends with and all she did was talk #### on how Ian was when they dated like in a way I didn’t believe it bc she is still in love with him but I still wondered but just like this girls so gross and we all make fun of her so she’s like our main joke which bothers him and iv tried to not bring her up but just today I deleted her # and MySpace so there’s no contact now. Neways after he broke up with me which was on our way to my house to drop me off he hugged me and rubbed my back then when we came in I tried to give him the clothes he left me and he said no keep them and then said that he’s not mad at me or hates me and he still wants to be friends and when he left he gave me a big hug and a little kiss. Then later I asked if he still loved me and he said he didn’t know how to answer that it was too hard of a question and that he was sorry. Then he went on to say that he just needed sometime to think and then we can talk. And I asked if we can try it again later and he said yeah sure. what should I do how should I act when I see him this weekend (bc he has to bring my mp3 player to me and get his hoodie)should I jus not talk to him till then or should I still send goodnight and good morning texts to show I care? how do I get less paranoid and controlling and start trusting more bc I know he loves me its just my ex lied and cheated alot and I was with him for 2yrs. so I still kind of think all guys will be like him..
HELP PLEASE I WANT HIM BACK!!!!
Thanks Tori