hi again
so anyway me and my girlfriend have been having a few issues so i talked to her to find out why and she told me that she doesn't feel the same about me as she did before and that she's seeing me in a different way.
basically what she said is that she doesn't love me as much anymore and is viewing me in a less romantic way. we're still together, but things are as you can imagine a little strained. she also said that she doesnt want to breakup.
she said she was confused at the moment and she's not sure if she still loves me. because this change in her views happened in about the span of a day we're both hoping it's just a phase will pass as quickly as it came.
so far we've deduced that she's is still attracted to me physically and wants to be around me (friendly). if anyone has any experience with this kindof thing it would be very helpful.
things to note:
- her change of heart over me was pretty much instantaneous (as in wake up one mourning and feelings had changed, this happened 6 days ago)
- she became sick the day it happened and continued to be sick for several days afterward (loss of appetite.etc)
- she is currently having her period (im not sure how much that changes things)
also i did something which i regard as stupid, i told her not to say 'i love you' at all until she was sure how she felt, not to me or in txts.
so anyway me and my girlfriend have been having a few issues so i talked to her to find out why and she told me that she doesn't feel the same about me as she did before and that she's seeing me in a different way.
basically what she said is that she doesn't love me as much anymore and is viewing me in a less romantic way. we're still together, but things are as you can imagine a little strained. she also said that she doesnt want to breakup.
she said she was confused at the moment and she's not sure if she still loves me. because this change in her views happened in about the span of a day we're both hoping it's just a phase will pass as quickly as it came.
so far we've deduced that she's is still attracted to me physically and wants to be around me (friendly). if anyone has any experience with this kindof thing it would be very helpful.
things to note:
- her change of heart over me was pretty much instantaneous (as in wake up one mourning and feelings had changed, this happened 6 days ago)
- she became sick the day it happened and continued to be sick for several days afterward (loss of appetite.etc)
- she is currently having her period (im not sure how much that changes things)
also i did something which i regard as stupid, i told her not to say 'i love you' at all until she was sure how she felt, not to me or in txts.