don't do it out of the blue. casually ask her on a date first either in person (preferably) or over the phone (no texting!)

add her on msn? and get talking:D

don't do it over the internet... the best time is in person-- if you are confident, you let off a whole different attitude and persona. if she likes you, she will find time for you to be alone w/ her, trust me the same shit happened to me and i pussied out of course-- i don't like her anymore though but you just have to do it when the time is right or you'll regret it. if you FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO ASK HER OUT then do it over the phone. it's much better than the internet where you come off as a pussy. over the phone is one thing but the internet is a complete no-no. just ask her if she wants to catch a movie with you sometime. don't make it sound like a date cuz it just sounds kind of intimidating. or you can say you were thinking of seeing (insert movie here) and wanted to know if she wanted to see it with you. good luck lemme know how it goes bro

I dont see why some people ask this question?

Is it so unusual to just do the simple thing? To just... well ask her?

Just do it in person, and that's as good as you can get.

Do it in person. Trust me on this! It might be more painful, but if you are relaxed, you will get a yes probably (no guarantees!)

Why would you want to ask her out?

Well, i was in a similar situation as u were a few months ago. i liked a girl, and wanted to ask her out. from my experiences, dont do anything online or phone...especially if she's never given u her info personally, cus then u look like a creeper. and dont wait for the perfect moment wen its just the two of you...i tried to do that and i ended up waiting a month or so, and she ended up getting a bf while i was waiting for the "oppourtune moment". the only way to do it is make your own opportune moment and ask her...or if u must, pull her aside and ask her. so, recap:

• do it in person
  
• dont wait for the perfect moment, try to do it as soon as possible
  

oh, one more thing, try not to beat around the bush. go up, say hi, talk about a small, two-sentence-max topic and then ask her...if u beat around the bush, u look nervous...girls hate that. gl guy

Yes, that is so funny.

Anyways, my camouflage point was you don't need to ask someone out just because you like them.

Do it in person............does she know that your interesting of her???? If she doesn't tell her about your filling if you think that she's interesting too.....otherwise tell her just to go out for a drink or somethink like this.....

Do it in person.

yh dis

you should add her e-mail and start talking, casually bring up that you should hang out soon. then later if you are feeling spontanious call her and ask her out:)

dam this advice is shitty.. sorry but honestly don't listen to these people. doing it over the internett is the worst way to ask a girl out

it sounds like he knows her pretty well already so they don't really need to talk online or msn or whatever. Just ask her as soon as possible there's never the perfect moment

I think your best bet is to go traditional and do it in person.
But if you're one of those shy guys, I think you should start with the whole IM'ing thing.
Or you can start texting her and flirt it up for a while, get to know her, and then give her a couple calls and move on to dating out.

What ever happened to dating then relationships? What happened to open communication and getting to know the person first?...Try these first.