i love him so much and i see past his weight, everyone says they are suprised i am going out with him as he is big, hes not fat just big but not like a huge stomach or anything, but the thing is when we are having sex when he leans on me it hurts as i am slim, i want to say he is hurting me but i dont want to call him fat, we have been going out for about 3 months and we only had sex recently.
my boyfriend is too heavy :S
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You should talk it through with him, so you can come up with more comfortable suitable things.
I'm sure he'd rather know, and try other things than having you not enjoy it
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Maybe try you being on top? that way hes not leaning on you.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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yaa top obv
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Try a different position.
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i agreee try being on top and see if that works then just see what's comfortable as you progress sexually with him
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Believe me, he won't mind... just let him know how you feel.
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go on top, try hanging off edge of a surface (bed), standing
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just tell him in the nicest way possible.
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agreed with above
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I am a big guy, only having one partner, but being with her for a while, we got around it, she wasn't slim, but she wasn't near as big as me, just have him hold himself up ifhe's on top...he doesn't HAVE to *lay* on top LOL, one of the biggest things I learned, communicate with him, he will be glad to help you enjoy it more!living life through a camera lens
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