Homophobic much?

I don't see why people have some sort of fear of being gay. It really pisses me off when people are like:

"OMG I DONT WANNA BE GAY!!11ONE!11!"

God...... Grow up. You don't choose to be gay.

ANYWAY, back on topic. Ummm, I don't really know to be honest. Perhaps you're just going through a phase. You're only young, things will change!

People fear what they don't understand.

And that is why people need educating on the matter!

Right.
There is nothing wrong with being gay, i mean you either are or you arent.
Its a gene in your DNA, you dnt choose!!! LOL :]
Your only 13, please dnt fret about it.
Youve got years, to gather up who you really are.
It takes time.

i would step in and defend homosexuality.. but it looks like thats already been done.. lol

as for you becoming less interested in girls.. its very unlikely this is something perminant.. your 13 for gods sake.. (or his equivilant for an athiest) its probable you just saw something that grossed you out and made you look differently at girls, let the moment pass and you should be fine..

as for homosexuality.. just cos you dont like girls doesnt mean you like guys.. ever heard of being asexual..

youve got a lot of changes yet to go kid, dont go thinkin you have all the answers prematurely.. i do it too often and it comes back and bites me.. as always, if you want support or help feel free to msn message me

Yeh Judging by what you said I really don't think you're gay. you just need to relax, just because your not interested in sexual activity dosen't mean much.

Oh yeh and

...Huh?... oh how I am looking forward to you being banned.

it's puberty, i guess.

Like people have said, you probably aren't gay or bisexual if you don't like the prospect of being in a relationship with other guys. You probably are just going through a phase or something where you aren't interested in relationships or something. It'll most likely pass, if it doesn't, it still doesn't mean you're gay.

I'm pretty sure there are people who are gay but shudder at the thought of being with a guy. Of course those people need to be educated on who they are. It really depends on what you want to live as. But your still young, stilling growing, so you still have quite a bit to get through before knowing exactly what your sexual orientation is.

I don't blame the guy for not wanting to be gay, or "shuddering" at the thought of being with another guy. In fact, I'd be surprised if this wasn't the norm in many situations. Who'd want to be subjected to the ridicule, the threats, the beatings, the alienation, and on and on...?

To the OP, what you're going through is perfectly fine. You'll have years and years of confusion ahead of you, and that's not a bad thing if you look at it from an open-minded perspective. Maybe you're gay, maybe you're straight, or bisexual, or non-sexual, or pansexual, or eventually transsexual. Or maybe you're all of those and more. Don't limit yourself with fear, and don't back down. Explore and discover, and I promise you'll have the time of your life.

I would also talk to your doctor about this if it's gone on for multiple months. And I wonder if you're on any depression medication, as that can have an effect on libido. Stay cool bro

Stop bumping old threads

Sorry, but why not? I saw that no one had mentioned what I thought of the situation, so I commented in case the guy ever looks again, or if someone like him wants advice. Why keep old threads if you can't comment?

You are not gay!

I'm going to be the one person to say the opposite. XD Just because you mentally don't see yourself with a guy or want to be in a realtionship doesn't make you not gay. I used to be the same way. I'm sorry I'm not sold. Could be denial could be puberty. Only you will know.

Old thread Joe don't bump it ..

heeeeeeey, yeah, you do choose to be gay, first off. He doesn't want to be gay, but he don't car for the girls... he's become asexual, period, so pfft no need to think a bout fuckin anyone but yourself. See if you get a buzz off of watching yourself jerk off in the miror

Watch gay porn, it helps you figuire it out.