Hi, I have a problem and it gets me depressed. This will be long so please bare with me.
Over the past few months I have noticed that I don't have any real good friends anymore. The relationship between my friends is deterierating.
I have two groups of friends. One group is the out doors type and the other which are closer to me are my gamer friends.
I never hang out with my outdoors friends because they either don't care to hang out with me or what I think the problem is, is drugs and drinking. These were the people who were against everything like that and one day they all do it. This is not what I like. This does not bother me as much as what is happening with my gamer friends.
My gamer friends are two people mainly. These are the people I am having an issue with. My one friend is nice and is fun to hangout with. The other is also fun to hang out with but is a jerk. Hes nice to me most of the time, it's just his character. In order to hang out with these two more I got World of Warcraft so we could have more in common.
Just so you can understand the situation I will give you a little backround on some of my friends.
Friend 1: Nice, likes to go outside at my house. Doesn't like drugs or drinking. Has a girlfriend for four years and going, Play's World of Warcraft religiously.
Friend 2: Sometimes mean, plays WoW religiously, drinks a lot. Likes to go outside and mess around with people.
My issue is that when I want to hang out with friend 1 he always wants to have friend 2 with us. It's like it can never just be me and him. Whenever all three of us are together there are the only ones doing the talking and whenever I try to say something they either don't care or friend 2 puts me down and friend 1 never backs me up. Never. When I say he never backs me up I mean when friend 2 will insult me friend 1 wont say anything and will act like it never happened.
I usually go onto ventrilo and talk to some people. Both of my friends are on the ventrilo server I go on. Whenever I am in with them they are always doing something together. When I ask if they want to do something they most of the time say no or they are busy. Since I am new to WoW I asked both of my friends if they could start a new guy and play with me. They both say they don't want to. So when friend 1 makes a new character friend 2 makes one with him and they play together. Not once have they asked me to hop on mine. Not once.
Originally I hung out with friend 1 and friend 1 and 2 never spoke. When they started talking thats when the decline of my friendship with 1 and 2 started to decline.
To be quite honest I can't say I have a lot of friends anymore and I certainly don't have any good friends.
So anyone, please I would like some advice on this situation.
As of right now I am really depressed. Don't worry I am not going to hurt myself in anyway.
Am I looking to hard into this? Or is my friendship really starting to fall apart?
If anyone would like to discuss this over AIM, then PM me and ask for my screen name and I will gladly give it to you.
Thank you, Plink.
Over the past few months I have noticed that I don't have any real good friends anymore. The relationship between my friends is deterierating.
I have two groups of friends. One group is the out doors type and the other which are closer to me are my gamer friends.
I never hang out with my outdoors friends because they either don't care to hang out with me or what I think the problem is, is drugs and drinking. These were the people who were against everything like that and one day they all do it. This is not what I like. This does not bother me as much as what is happening with my gamer friends.
My gamer friends are two people mainly. These are the people I am having an issue with. My one friend is nice and is fun to hangout with. The other is also fun to hang out with but is a jerk. Hes nice to me most of the time, it's just his character. In order to hang out with these two more I got World of Warcraft so we could have more in common.
Just so you can understand the situation I will give you a little backround on some of my friends.
Friend 1: Nice, likes to go outside at my house. Doesn't like drugs or drinking. Has a girlfriend for four years and going, Play's World of Warcraft religiously.
Friend 2: Sometimes mean, plays WoW religiously, drinks a lot. Likes to go outside and mess around with people.
My issue is that when I want to hang out with friend 1 he always wants to have friend 2 with us. It's like it can never just be me and him. Whenever all three of us are together there are the only ones doing the talking and whenever I try to say something they either don't care or friend 2 puts me down and friend 1 never backs me up. Never. When I say he never backs me up I mean when friend 2 will insult me friend 1 wont say anything and will act like it never happened.
I usually go onto ventrilo and talk to some people. Both of my friends are on the ventrilo server I go on. Whenever I am in with them they are always doing something together. When I ask if they want to do something they most of the time say no or they are busy. Since I am new to WoW I asked both of my friends if they could start a new guy and play with me. They both say they don't want to. So when friend 1 makes a new character friend 2 makes one with him and they play together. Not once have they asked me to hop on mine. Not once.
Originally I hung out with friend 1 and friend 1 and 2 never spoke. When they started talking thats when the decline of my friendship with 1 and 2 started to decline.
To be quite honest I can't say I have a lot of friends anymore and I certainly don't have any good friends.
So anyone, please I would like some advice on this situation.
As of right now I am really depressed. Don't worry I am not going to hurt myself in anyway.
Am I looking to hard into this? Or is my friendship really starting to fall apart?
If anyone would like to discuss this over AIM, then PM me and ask for my screen name and I will gladly give it to you.
Thank you, Plink.