okay usually when there is a girl i see and i like both her looks and personality, her having a bf wouldn't stop me trying, but i have fancied one of my mates girlfriends for almost a year now and have done nothing, but the other day we were in the pub (by we I mean, me, her, a few more of my mates, and her bf who was behind the bar) and i got talking to her.

we were both pretty drunk - not off our faces, but pretty tipsy to say the least and we both looked over at my mate who was behind the bar (i.e. her bf) and he was looking over at us and gave me a right evil look.

she then joked "ooh! i think hes angry with us. should we punish him?"

next thing i know, i say the first thing which comes to mind (which probably wasnt the brightest thing to say) which was "yeaah. maybe you, me and my beloved friend johnny (for those of you who dont know what a johnny is, its a condom lol) should go to the toilets and just have meaningless sex aye?"

luckily he wasnt too close to us, and the bar was pretty noisy, so i dont think he heard me, but instead of her laughing at what i said, she ended up taking me by the hand and going to a quieter area of the pub where my mate (i.e. her bf) couldnt keep such a close eye on us or hear what we were saying.

we spent most of the night chatting away and laughing, quite a lot of flirting and touching going along too.

i dont know what to do now. should i tell my mate (i.e. her bf) what happened and hope he won't hate me lol...or worse, hit me? should i just not do anything and hope it all goes away? should i talk to her and see what she has to say about it? should i try and do anything about it?

so confused. need help