is my brother gay?

rosiebabes.x · May 12th 2009, 1:16pm

a few weeks ago, my boyfriend sent me a video of himself masturbating,
its pretty hot and he says my name a few times, obviously ive watched it quite a few times when he's been out of town...anyway he sent it to me over email, and its on the family computer(in the lounge), but in my workspace which i assumed nobody goes into..
but...
last week both my parents left for work, and it was just me and my brother home, but he was in bed and i thought he was asleep. i went out to the shop just to get some milk and when i came back i could hear the video playing, in the lounge quite loud and i was really embarrased cos i thought my brother had discovered it so i walked into the lounge expecting to see him in shock but he was in his just in his boxers wanking to the video!!
luckily he didnt see me cos his back was to the door..
but i ran out the room, out of the house and then i rung the doorbell and pretended i'd lost my key but i don't know whether to say something to him!!
also..
does this mean he is gay?! not that i mind if he is...

Leigh · May 12th 2009, 1:18pm

It could mean he's gay, or he could just have found the video arousing - either way he shouldn't have been going through your stuff or masturbating to a video of your boyfriend which was private.

I suggest putting a password on your workspace and not saying anything to your brother - otherwise he could freak out and get really embaressed which isn't the best thing if he really is gay and hasn't come out yet.

Atiuan.Koko · May 12th 2009, 1:23pm

He could just be curious about his sexuality. Just because he was watching that and doing what he was, doesn't mean he is gay.

A lot of guys (not all but a lot) go through "gay phases" (for lack of a better description) in their teens, as a sort of self discovery thing. It could just be a phase.

I don't think you should say anything to him in case he really is gay, he might be really embarrassed especially if he is closeted.

Hope this helps in some way.. :)

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Doughnut wrote:

It could mean he's gay, or he could just have found the video arousing - either way he shouldn't have been going through your stuff or masturbating to a video of your boyfriend which was private.

I suggest putting a password on your workspace and not saying anything to your brother - otherwise he could freak out and get really embaressed which isn't the best thing if he really is gay and hasn't come out yet.

Do that as well. It would be the smart thing to do.

Princess8 · May 12th 2009, 1:26pm

Sounds gay, guy wanking to another guy, but who knows?

How old is he? If he's REAL young and it's the first porn he's ever seen (even POSSIBLY first male porn) he's EVER seen, then I can see wanking to it as an experiment. But sounds gay, since I doubt that's it, kids see porn early these days. Sounds like to me he just likes guys.

FYI people - if you don't have your own computer, be careful with your stuff!

rosiebabes.x · May 12th 2009, 1:43pm

no hes older than me he's 19!
thanks for clarifying that guys, i havent really heard of straight guys wanking to a video of another guy but i can see now that this doesnt have to mean he is gay..
yeah i think i better take your advice! i just didnt have a password because i couldnt think why anyone would want to look on my workspace
... obviously not
and if i put a password on maybe he will realise that i know he's watched it!
sly
thanks xx

Cirrax Lankart · May 12th 2009, 2:49pm

if he's getting aroused at the sight and thought of other penises, then yes, he is most l;ikely gay or bi. almost guaranteed he's not straight.

Liam · May 12th 2009, 2:52pm

He's gay.

username #89 · May 12th 2009, 4:39pm

doolie · May 12th 2009, 4:41pm

^^^Funny how the hand is pointing at you.

Nick09 · May 12th 2009, 4:50pm

Maybe, maybe not.

He could be gay, bisexual, or he sometimes fantasises about men although he never plans to act on it (many, if not most men will do this at some point).

Insomniac urea · May 12th 2009, 7:22pm

he's not gay... you'd get horny if you saw a girl masturbating... right?

Ken_ · May 12th 2009, 10:27pm

I wouldn't doubt him being curious, bi, or gay; is it an issue if he is though?

username #88 · May 12th 2009, 10:29pm

Any body that masturbates to another person of the same sex is purely 100 percent gay. Come on. No doubt about it.

Giggity · May 12th 2009, 10:31pm

mareenah wrote:

he's not gay... you'd get horny if you saw a girl masturbating... right?

No...I think you're just bi :rolleyes:.

I have alot of friends that are girls, who think watching a girl masturbate is really really gross.

Fudgepuppy · May 12th 2009, 10:54pm

If he was young like less than 12 he was prolly just immatating him.(sp) if not then ya, he likes dick in the ass.

harvey · May 12th 2009, 11:00pm

by the sounds of it your bro is gay

KateKate · May 13th 2009, 12:23am

I would also say he is gay. I have never heard of a straight guy that would do that...ever.

Crazy C · May 13th 2009, 12:41am

Doughnut wrote:

It could mean he's gay, or he could just have found the video arousing - either way he shouldn't have been going through your stuff or masturbating to a video of your boyfriend which was private.

I suggest putting a password on your workspace and not saying anything to your brother - otherwise he could freak out and get really embaressed which isn't the best thing if he really is gay and hasn't come out yet.

Whether he is straight or not, it was on the family computer ( in the lounge)

Noesohp · May 13th 2009, 1:10am

He may or may not be gay. See if it happens again.

Princess8 · May 13th 2009, 8:53am

well does he currently have a gf? Has he ever? Does he date a lot? If yes to any of these, then he's bi or bi curious.

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