Female Masturbation Help!

    • Female Masturbation Help!

      Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl. My sister watched porn the other day and got really horny, so she poked her self in bed. She told me about it in the morning and said it was really pleasurable, I tried it in the morning after a shower and didn't feel much pleasure.

      What I'm trying to ask is, how come my twin sister felt loads of pleasure and happiness, when I didn't? I was relaxed and breathing heavly, but what is pleasure really?

      Also it was my first time, I think it might have been because I felt left out, was that the reason why I didn't feel much pleasure? She did it at night after watching porn, I watched a little bit in the morning and did it and I didn't really feel much.

      Is this supose to happen, I'm new to this. Also I was a bit nervous and scared about it but tried to relax.

      Also if I didn't feel pleasure in a organism, would I feel it during sex when the time was right?

      Can someone please give me some advice? Is there anything wrong with me?
    • Re: Female Masturbation Help!

      :rofl: I'm sorry, I had to giggle when you wrote 'organism'. It's orgasm lol. Don't worry a girl in my old biology class wrote something a few years ago in an exam about 'orgasms' instead of 'organisms' :rofl:

      Sounds to me like you're pretty new to masturbation and the reason you tried it was cos your twin sister had tried it.
      Like what was well said above, it's important you experiment and try out new things, this way you can get to see what suits you and what you enjoy. What works for some people doesn't work for others, hence the whole experimental stuff.
      There is nothing wrong with you and I'm sure when you're ready and mature enough to have sex, it will be fine. Remember to find out what you like and tell your partner what you like when you're ready for sex.
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    • Re: Female Masturbation Help!

      What's with all the crappy responses?

      She's obviously asking why she didn't feel pleasure. I can only think of a few things :

      1. You were doing it wrong. Meaning you weren't stimulating the right parts, specifically the clitoris. The clitoris has the most pleasure sensors of your genitalia, so that's mainly where the pleasure comes from. The first few inches of the vagina also has quite a lot of sensors, so that works as well, although not as much as the clitoris. Some girls can have an orgasm by clitoral stimulation only. Doesn't even need any penetration!

      2. You were uneasy. You're going to have a hard time reaching an orgasm if you were uncomfortable or if you weren't in the mood. I would suggest doing what your sister did; watch a porno first.

      3. You weren't ready. Some of the telltale signs of a girl being ready for any sexual activity are nipples getting hard, clitoris swelling and being erect, vagina getting wet/lubricated, and a few others.


      It could help if you wait as long as you can and build up your horniness before you masturbate. So perhaps watch porn or think of stuff for a while before you do it. Since you're a complete newbie, I would suggest researching and learning more about masturbation in general.
    • Re: Female Masturbation Help!

      eXoo wrote:

      Hmmm, buy a sex toy.

      ---------- Post added at 03:36 PM ---------- Previous post was at 03:35 PM ----------

      how old is your sister hun?


      She said "I'm fifteen...........my twin sister....."

      So I would guess that her twin sister is 15 too.


      As for you, you're completely normal. Just experiment. It actually might've just been the way you were doing it. But I'm not getting into a conversation about how you masturbated lol.
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    • Re: Female Masturbation Help!

      relax, get horny, then experiment and find what you like. dont do it cuz your siser did it, do it cuz you want to do it. have fun doing it, its subposed to be fun. As for your orgasm, i'm sure you didn't get one if it didn't feel good, so i wouldn't worry to much about if it will fell different during sex. ne ways hope that helps