My dad

    • My dad

      I'm sixteen and my sister (aged 15) live with my father. My mother died when i was a baby and i have been living with my father ever since and i have always considered him to be a good father.

      Recently i found a video with the rest of the old videos we have and it had my name on it. Thinking it was a fun one of me, i was curious as to what exactly was in the video and i put it on and to my horror i found it was a video of me and my sister, at a very very young age, completely naked and getting me and my sister to touch each other and he was also touching us.

      I was completely shocked by this video as i can't believe the man who i've always considered a good father and who has never ever hurt me would have done something like this to me and now i don't know what to do. Do i confront my father on this? I'm scared to even talk to him about it and dont' know who else to turn to. Would someone help? My sister does not know i have found this video and i am not sure i even want her to know.

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      Maybe there's a family friend you can go to. I wouldn't advise you to show your sister just yet though as it could easily ruin the relationships between you all.
      Also if there is video proof i would 100% definitley say you should go to the police. It's disgraceful that anyone should be allowed to get away with this because you might hate me for saying this but if he did it to you then, he could very easily be doing it to other young children now. It's a very serious matter and it shouldn't be ignored. You never know what other children may be put through trauma because you didn't say anything.
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      I think it's sick it make me feel sick to here things like this what he as done is wrong and someone should be told
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      angel999 wrote:

      I don't know if i can report him. He's always been so good to us...for me to see this video is a shock to me that he had actually done this to us...:(


      I can't imagine how you feel at the moment but you have to do it. As much as you want to believe that it was a one off thing, its highly unlikely. He probably stopped once you reached a certain age but you need to think of other girls that age. I am so sorry to be the bitch who brings it up but its so likely that he's moved on to other kids still that age, you got to help them and protect kids who might come across it in the future. Just think about it please.
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      x-mercedes-x wrote:

      I can't imagine how you feel at the moment but you have to do it. As much as you want to believe that it was a one off thing, its highly unlikely. He probably stopped once you reached a certain age but you need to think of other girls that age. I am so sorry to be the bitch who brings it up but its so likely that he's moved on to other kids still that age, you got to help them and protect kids who might come across it in the future. Just think about it please.


      I agree with ^^^
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      My advice is to NOT talk to him about it. I know he's your dad and all, and you love him very much, but what if he DOES get violent? The last thing you need is to get smacked around. People like him obviously have a couple screws loose, you can never predict their actions. Go to the police with the tape. You'll probably save some children from being abused. If he's okay to do that to his own children, he's definately okay with doing it to someone elses kids. I would talk to the police about it. That's very wrong, and he can't be that good of a dad if he used to molest you AND tape it.
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      Wow this is serious stuff...what he has right there is child pornography and its also child abuse because he made you do it.
      What I would suggest is going to a family member that you trust or even one of your friend's parents.
      You could even go to a teacher and just talk it through with them about what you found and share your worries with them.
      This problem needs to be addressed though because although it was a while ago he could still be capable of doing this again and may have other videos...
      I really hope things go ok with you.
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      My sister knows. I felt i had to tell her. I didn't show her the tape. I didn't want to put her throught that.

      But after I told her she burst into tears and told me my dad's been sexually abusing her since that time. It made me feel sick. How could he do this do us - to his children? After I found that part of information i packed my sister's bags and sent her to live with my aunt, while i stayed home and waited for my father. I wanted to confront him. I know, how very stupid of me, i bet you're all thinking, are you insane? But i had to know. I had to know how the man who's been raising us for the past 16 years could do this to us. So when i told him he broke down crying and told him he did it because he needed something to distract him from the pain of losin my mother. It just made me feel really sick. So i picked up the bags i'd packed for myself before my dad had come home and i walked out.

      I told my aunt what had happened. Shed called the police for us, and my sister had to go to the doctors to be examined after she told them he touched her the night before and they found evidence of sexual abuse and my father is now in jail.

      i am now terribly confused by all that has just happened - how could the man who i thought was my hero all these years do this to us? how can the man who raised us so well all these years put us through this. I feel awful that i couldn't protect my sister as well

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      I'm sorry, but a father is a parent, and a parent takes care of you (certainly doesn't mollust you). This person is not your parent, he is a molluster, and you should report him. Go to a family friend, payphone, police station, and report him. Don't even think about what you're doing, that is what's holding you back. Please, do the right thing.