Neither do i :X

my parents allow my girlfriend to stay over and sleep in the same bed as me and her parents allow her to stay over and sleep in bed with me. i'm 18. she's 19. we've been sleeping together for a little over half a year.

i personally wouldn't let my 16 year old sleep in the same bed as her boyfriend, but i'd rather them be having sex safely under the roof of their own home than in the backseat of a car somewhere.

There are just parents who are brought up in a certain lifestyle. Although, there are some things that we look down upon, there are some things that they don't mind. That's just how things are and we shouldn't judge their decisions.

Like i know, my parents WOULD never let me do that type of stuff and I am 20

^ This.

It's just the way that some parents
are, you know? You can question
all you want, but the thing is is that
it's just the way it is. Some parents
believe in different stuff and it really
depends on how people grew up.

Hi
As others said before, some parents are
brought up differently to others. They will
either let their kids do as they themselves
did when they were young, or else prevent
them from making the same mistakes they
did.
I think that it is fair for a parent to give their
kid a longer leash as they get older. The six-
teen yeah old you mentioned - well, so long
as she is being safe and using protection,
then is it so bad?
Everyone sees things differently, and everyone
is brought up differently. You can question
other's parental skills but at the end of the
day, there are so many things that determine
what a person is like when they're older
that we cannot judge parents on this sort
of thing.
Besides...with a lot of people out age (teen-
agers), if we're not allowed something, it
makes us want it more. It's part of the
teenager rebel thing. Like, if you refuse
point-blank to let your kid drink alcohol
until they're old enough, chances are
they'll nick some at a part to try it or
something.
Lots of people have differene views
about this. Personally I think us teens
should have a longer leash, but be
controlled so we don't go nuts.

15 years old and 16 years old is too young to sleep over with their boyfriend on the same bed. that is consider as child abuse. Am i right? is that some kind of an abuse? Tell me i'm right.

^ ... How is it child abuse?

That's bad parenting...not child abuse.

I don't personally see whats wrong with it....my boyfriend has slept in my bed before and I'm 16. I guess my mum just knows I'm sensible.

Just because people are sharing the same bed doesn't mean they HAVE to have sex it's not written in stone.

15 or 16 I'd say is a little young. And I do believe though that just because they sleep in the same bed doesn't mean they're having sex. Not every teen is that irresponsible. I think her mother should watch her back since it is kind of illegal I think, but other then that . . . . hey! it's her mothers decision. Although I wouldn't say that it's right to sleep in the same bed at that young of an age. I think it's okay for the boyfriend to sleepover. Just not in the same bed or room. I guess I shouldn't talk to much though since I mean when I was twelve I would make out with my boyfriend on the bed. My mom knew all about it. We never actually slept in the same bed though.