Hi, i'm just going to make this short.
Today i went onto my bf's phone to text my mum coz my phone was dead only it's an iphone so i'm not very good at working the thing. I pressed mail thinking it was texts or whatever and it turned out to be his email. Yeah i read the email that was on there maybe i shouldn't have but i was only being nosy i guess. Anyway the email was from his best mate Amber, i don't mind him having girl mates as i have a few guy mates. The text said something like thank you for the other night it was good to chat, and Hannah (me) just expects us to be the same as we was before, she's not really talking to me and she's pissing me off.
I was quite hurt but i know he needs to talk about things to his friends, i do it.
Now i asked him when the last time he saw her was. He said before he went to Afghan which was about 3 months ago, this email was recent so i know he was lieing. I also asked whether he ever spoke about us to any of his friends, problems and all that, he then told me he doesn't it's nothing to do with them and he even swore on my life he doesn't.
Why didn't he just admit that he saw her and he spoke to her about our probs. Why did he need to lie and swear on my life about it.
I was really upset coz if i hadn't have read those emails and then i would have blieved him. I'm really hurt.
Anyone hav any answers?
Thanks.
x
Today i went onto my bf's phone to text my mum coz my phone was dead only it's an iphone so i'm not very good at working the thing. I pressed mail thinking it was texts or whatever and it turned out to be his email. Yeah i read the email that was on there maybe i shouldn't have but i was only being nosy i guess. Anyway the email was from his best mate Amber, i don't mind him having girl mates as i have a few guy mates. The text said something like thank you for the other night it was good to chat, and Hannah (me) just expects us to be the same as we was before, she's not really talking to me and she's pissing me off.
I was quite hurt but i know he needs to talk about things to his friends, i do it.
Now i asked him when the last time he saw her was. He said before he went to Afghan which was about 3 months ago, this email was recent so i know he was lieing. I also asked whether he ever spoke about us to any of his friends, problems and all that, he then told me he doesn't it's nothing to do with them and he even swore on my life he doesn't.
Why didn't he just admit that he saw her and he spoke to her about our probs. Why did he need to lie and swear on my life about it.
I was really upset coz if i hadn't have read those emails and then i would have blieved him. I'm really hurt.
Anyone hav any answers?
Thanks.
x