Do it... You want him he is all your!!

NIKE (just do it)

I'd say leave it. That's kind of douchey thing to do.

I have to disagree. It really all depends on how long they've been dating imho. Now if you want him you go get him girl :p

Eh, I agree with Bebop. I would leave it. Of course you would rather pursue him, you like him after all. You shouldn't feel guilty for it. You can't help who you like. If he wants you, he'll break up with his girlfriend. Just remember that if he does anything with you while he's still with her, he can easily do that to you as well. That's just my opinion.

+1

Anyone who says otherwise, I think, lacks some common sense. He's taken, so that means he's off limits until he's single.

End of story.

Not entirely true.. she could still flirt with him.. etc and no I don't lack common sense because, its all apart of the "dating" game.

Leave it be.
If it's meant to happen, it will.
Otherwise, I don't think it's wise to mess with an already formed relationship, that's just wrong.

See, but the guy's not part of the 'dating game'. The dating game is when you're still single and he isn't.

No actually the dating game is as long as there not married.. she could at the very least get closer to the guy.

See, but then that's inviting trouble. As Jasmine said, unless if he breaks up with the girl flirting with him could just lead to him cheating on his girl, in which case, even if he does dump her he could do it to her as well.

Also, the dating game is up when you aren't single because what can sometimes happen when you're in a relationship? You can get married.

Well I agree but.. at the same time I also stated on HOW LONG THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER. If its only been a few months then it's obviously not as serious as you might think.. therefore its free game.

Well personally I feel that if you do that in the first 3 months it's fairly redundant (since that's when you're on that whole new relationship high, unless if you just weren't that interested to begin with)

but at the same time, the longer the relationship is ... it also becomes more redundant since that's when the couple starts to 'settle'. So, there's only a very small window of opportunity, even then ... it's not something I'd advise because even if he is interested, he may just be jerking her along for a ride. Especially if he's one of those guys that's just naturally flirty all the time.

I myself am in a relationship and I do flirt with other guys but ... not for romantic reasons. It helps sales at work (besides they're all dirty old men anyways) ... My boyfriend on the other hand seems to be capable of flirting only with me. He's the kind of guy that says "it's common sense to not cheat when you're in a relationship". Even though he does check out other girls, if a cute girl flirts with him he goes kind of ... dead. He doesn't respond in a positive way at all yet with me he'll happily flirt back.

i would just leave him alone :\

Anybody that suggests for you to do it, I suggest they go have their Boyfriend/Girlfriend stolen by someone else to see how it feels, this other Girl and him might be in love, it could crush her... Do it!

Mr Jack wrote:

Anybody that suggests for you to do it, I suggest they go have their Boyfriend/Girlfriend stolen by someone else to see how it feels, this other Girl and him might be in love, it could crush her... Do it!

Been there done that... by my best friend of all people. Actually made me stronger.. but eh.. I say get closer to him..

Well that sucks! hope you gave him a good slap in the face!

Yeah.. I took care of it don't worry XD. but we're good friends again.. turns out the girl was a "player"

Hmmmm, regardless whether she was a player or not, your best friend slept with your girl, I can't imagine ever forgiving that kind of a betrayal...