i know this looks really longg, but i desperatley need help :///
okayyy
so theres a group of three of us, me and we'll call them emily and sarah
we've been best friends since year 7, so that's 5 years
there's never been anyone in our group, just the 3 of us
i mean, we're friends with other people, and each of us are friends with different people as well
but recently we've all changed. we've got a lot more confident and independent and mature, and also know a lot more guys now
ive started to get really annoyed with both of them and im not actually sure why..
for examplee we were in the park the other day and these two guys walk over. one of them would be the kinda guy i'd go for (tattoos and piercings and stuff) yet emily started acting all girly and really blonde and kept giggling with him..yet she'd normally go for quite chavvy guys. i felt like a complete tag along so in the end walked home..then she told our other friend that i had just walked off. which was a complete lie.
whenever new guys are around emily will turn from a clever mature girl to some air head who does nothing but giggle. she cant say no and its caused her to go out with someone she didnt want to, get off with someone she didnt like and a lot more stuff like that.
me and sarah often talk about how annoying it is, and i feel glad that someone agrees with me, yet then sarah will do the same. we'll go to a party and i'll see someone that i like, and just like that she has to be all over them, flirting like crazy.
i mean, i don't get as irritated at sarah but i do at emily. and then when its us three together and this happens with them two..i just feel like i shouldnt be friends with them, that i shouldve been friends with someone else, and i feel so left out and like a tag along. quite often ive ended up leaving, and its only when ive left that they realise that theyve been quite mean.
another thing that annoys me is that i do a lot of babysitting so i can earn some money, and its usually on a weekend, so i can never stay out too late. this happened last weekend, and while i was babysitting i got a text from emily saying "are you babysitting? lol" so i felt like she was laughing at the fact that she and sarah were still in town with these four guys that we knew, and i had had to go.
they're both really pretty and i often feel like im just the ugly one out of us.
i just dont know what to do anymore! but i really need to do something, because we've just finished school so know we've got 13 weeks of going out, partying, going into town and stuff..so i want to get this sorted/
can anyone help? or is anyone in a kinda same position?
sorry for the essay btw!
xxx
okayyy
so theres a group of three of us, me and we'll call them emily and sarah
we've been best friends since year 7, so that's 5 years
there's never been anyone in our group, just the 3 of us
i mean, we're friends with other people, and each of us are friends with different people as well
but recently we've all changed. we've got a lot more confident and independent and mature, and also know a lot more guys now
ive started to get really annoyed with both of them and im not actually sure why..
for examplee we were in the park the other day and these two guys walk over. one of them would be the kinda guy i'd go for (tattoos and piercings and stuff) yet emily started acting all girly and really blonde and kept giggling with him..yet she'd normally go for quite chavvy guys. i felt like a complete tag along so in the end walked home..then she told our other friend that i had just walked off. which was a complete lie.
whenever new guys are around emily will turn from a clever mature girl to some air head who does nothing but giggle. she cant say no and its caused her to go out with someone she didnt want to, get off with someone she didnt like and a lot more stuff like that.
me and sarah often talk about how annoying it is, and i feel glad that someone agrees with me, yet then sarah will do the same. we'll go to a party and i'll see someone that i like, and just like that she has to be all over them, flirting like crazy.
i mean, i don't get as irritated at sarah but i do at emily. and then when its us three together and this happens with them two..i just feel like i shouldnt be friends with them, that i shouldve been friends with someone else, and i feel so left out and like a tag along. quite often ive ended up leaving, and its only when ive left that they realise that theyve been quite mean.
another thing that annoys me is that i do a lot of babysitting so i can earn some money, and its usually on a weekend, so i can never stay out too late. this happened last weekend, and while i was babysitting i got a text from emily saying "are you babysitting? lol" so i felt like she was laughing at the fact that she and sarah were still in town with these four guys that we knew, and i had had to go.
they're both really pretty and i often feel like im just the ugly one out of us.
i just dont know what to do anymore! but i really need to do something, because we've just finished school so know we've got 13 weeks of going out, partying, going into town and stuff..so i want to get this sorted/
can anyone help? or is anyone in a kinda same position?
sorry for the essay btw!
xxx