hmm, i'd say you tell her to choose whens good. if she fucks you over then, your getting strung.

Ask her when she's free, MAYBE?

Agreed


Wait, I thought that kinda cursing resulted in an infraction... if it doesn't I am going to be so rotted because I had to edit out all the curse words from a previous post before posting -.-

Anyways,

It could be legit, but get her to pick a time, and then go, and if she cancels it for something else, ask if you can go. See what she says, don't just let her blow you off, but don't be like a clingy creep either

Well she maybe assumed you hadn't left yet... Talk to her about it, but don't be too blunt, women don't like that

I honestly believe instead of us theorizing and making assumptions, we could attempt an alternative approach.

Ask her. You probably have bad timing, but if a girl was going to 'ignore you' or 'play you', she wouldn't set up dates like this unless she is redundantly moronic, for the most part they simply will always just ignore the requests or after a while (1-2 times), they'd simply tell you the truth due to annoyance, which you haven't inferred.

Just "jokingly" (secretly seriously) tell her since she has blown you off 3 times now, it's her turn to decide when and where. And "jokingly" tell her she better not blow you off again.

She is not interested.
The big warning sign here is her cancelling the date because she was tired. If a girl likes a guy, she will want to see him, and being tired is not going to stop her. If she was interested and really couldn't make it that day, she would have suggested a different day during the same conversation - indicating she still wanted to see you. She did not (I presume, going by what you've said). And last, she’s cancelled. Three times. This is her way of saying she does not want to further the relationship.

Try not to let it bother you, just keep looking. When you’ve found a girl who shows up when she’s tired, invites you to her grandmothers barbeques (o.k. that may come later ;)) and never cancels one date without suggesting another, you’ve found a girl in which the interest is genuine and mutual.
All the best
C

the fourth time she will tell u its PMS hahaha, leae her dude

I would do this: try ONE more time, and if that STILL doesn't work, confront her and ask what's going on.

I think she's just messing with you man. I've been on dates with girls who were probably too tired to go, but went anyway and ended up falling asleep in the movie or something. If she really liked you, that most likely wouldn't be an excuse. The only reason I can really see why she might do this is if she is reall self-concous and is afraid to look bad around you, or she might think you are going to fuck with her after she falls asleep or something.

The way I see it, there are 2 options:

1) I think what you need to do is to tell her to plan the next date, and see what she says. If she says something like "oh, I dunno, I'd like it if you planned it" mention that you have the last 3 times and failed. Or what you could also do is, if she says you plan it, be prepared before the conversation starts with a date plan. If that doesn't work out, she's either playing you or just leads an incredibly busy life, and in that case I wouldn't think its worth dating her anyway, cause it would be hard for you to get together.

2) I halfway incorprated this into #1, but plan another date, and if she says no, tell her exactly what you told us about the situation and see what she has to say, because 4 cancelled dates in a row is just plain suspicious.

Hope this helps, and good luck.