Am I wrong for doing this?

    • Am I wrong for doing this?

      :l I was pretty messed up last night, I was uber drunk, and high. Then my friends ex-boyfriend adds me and starts talking to me about her, and how much she's hurt him in the past year and a half.. he didn't know she left him for another guy, and cheated on him for a few weeks with one of my close friends. :l I thought he knew so I brought it up. He got pissed, then messaged her but he promised me
      he wouldn't tell her it was me.. I get on myspace and I have a message from my friend saying how her ex rated me out, and now she's calling me a bitch in such because she was going to have him fly in to see her( he lives in a different state) and have sex.. when she broke up wtih him for another guy, and is dating the other guy. So i told her why I told him, but when I told him. :l


      But now I feel like an uber bitch. :l
      I was just trying to get him to not waste his time and money.. :l
      If you knew something like that would you tell their ex? :l
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    • Re: Am I wrong for doing this?

      You didn't mean it. In your shoes, you
      probably think that you have disobeyed
      your friend's trust. Though you've told
      him about her and her cheating -- well
      first off, you didn't mean it -- it's not your
      fault, you didn't know. She shouldn't have
      done that in the first place. It seems like
      she's trying to blame someone else for
      her own fault because she can't take her
      own responsibilities. She's blaming you
      because her ex found out. He would've
      found out eventually -- it was bound to
      happen, you know?

      You did well with telling him. Because of you,
      he didn't waste his time and money, as you've
      intended. I know I wouldn't want to fly over
      to see my girlfriend who's been cheating on
      me. They'll appreciate it in the long run, for
      now, don't worry so much. You did the right
      thing and you are not a bitch, no matter what
      your friend says. It was her actions that has
      lead to her own faults. If she didn't cheat in
      the first place, then you wouldn't have had
      anything to tell, you know?

      Hehe, it's okay <3
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    • Re: Am I wrong for doing this?

      No, you're not wrong for trying to protect someone's feelings. Not at all. The only reason why she verbally attacked you is she knew she was in the wrong, but didn't have the courage to admit it. And you know what they say, the first line of defence is attack. Famcy even thinking about flying an ex over for just sex, I think that proves that she doesn't really spare much thought for people's emotions or feelings here, it's all about what she wants, and not about doing the right thing.

      Don't be down on yourself, you did nothing wrong. I personally wouldn't be friends with this girl, she doesn't sound too nice at all, and obviously isn't scared to use people.
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    • Re: Am I wrong for doing this?

      I agree with the above statement, you did nothing wrong, in fact I think it was very noble, even if by accident. She shouldn't have been keeping secrets, cheating, or using him. If I was him I would be very glad that I had a friend like you so I didn't waste money flying to another state just to have sex with a bitch who cheated ON me in the first place, then is cheating on her boyfriend WITH me.