So, me and this girl met at the beggining of this past school year, and we have been amazing friends since. We tell each other everything. Well, for the last 2(ish) months of school I started to like her. I ended up telling her like 2 weeks before school got out. Well, Its summer now, and we text aton. I volunteered at this big national thing we had at our school that she was helping out at too. She told me she wanted me to, so i was like all right, sure.
Well i was there the first day, and it was basically the greatest day i have ever had. We hung out and a few of our other friends hung out with us. And it was just loads of fun. That night, we were texting and she said she was confused because we were such good friends, but she liked me more than that. Well, she was there two days when they went to an amusment park and all this stuff, but i couldnt go those two days. On the second day, the day before i was going to volunteer tonight, they went to a university.
Well I came back the next day, and we hung somemore. Not quite as excting as the first day. but fun. Well she seemed kinda distracted and stuff. when i got home we decided to hang so we met up at a park and hung out for 3 hours. During this time we talked ALOT. She asked me if i had heard anything about her that day, and i said no why. Well she said that apparently this kid from her group, that lives out of state, had kissed her at the university the night before, and said he was going to miss her, and gave her a bracelet to remember him with. Well, I was kinda upset cause she was still wearing the bracelet, but she said she had just forgoten to take it off. Well, her and her friend came over to my house a couple nights ago to hang cause my parents are out of town. My friend was there and we just jumped on the tramp and talked and stuff. Well my friend told me i should ask her out.
so late that night we were texting and i told her that my friend said that and she said that she doesnt think we should because we are best friends and it would be awkward. She is camping now, and has no service. So i have been thinking alot about her.
But here is where i need help. alright well first, isnt part of going out, that you need to be best friends and be able to tell each other everything and trust each other, which we do? and if she has known i like her for about 4 months now, but she has gone further with a kid she only knew for 4 days, should i still be trying? help me please i am so confused. and cant you stay best friends after breaking up? why not? so please help. thanks ahead of time. (sorry for the ridiculous length)
Well i was there the first day, and it was basically the greatest day i have ever had. We hung out and a few of our other friends hung out with us. And it was just loads of fun. That night, we were texting and she said she was confused because we were such good friends, but she liked me more than that. Well, she was there two days when they went to an amusment park and all this stuff, but i couldnt go those two days. On the second day, the day before i was going to volunteer tonight, they went to a university.
Well I came back the next day, and we hung somemore. Not quite as excting as the first day. but fun. Well she seemed kinda distracted and stuff. when i got home we decided to hang so we met up at a park and hung out for 3 hours. During this time we talked ALOT. She asked me if i had heard anything about her that day, and i said no why. Well she said that apparently this kid from her group, that lives out of state, had kissed her at the university the night before, and said he was going to miss her, and gave her a bracelet to remember him with. Well, I was kinda upset cause she was still wearing the bracelet, but she said she had just forgoten to take it off. Well, her and her friend came over to my house a couple nights ago to hang cause my parents are out of town. My friend was there and we just jumped on the tramp and talked and stuff. Well my friend told me i should ask her out.
so late that night we were texting and i told her that my friend said that and she said that she doesnt think we should because we are best friends and it would be awkward. She is camping now, and has no service. So i have been thinking alot about her.
But here is where i need help. alright well first, isnt part of going out, that you need to be best friends and be able to tell each other everything and trust each other, which we do? and if she has known i like her for about 4 months now, but she has gone further with a kid she only knew for 4 days, should i still be trying? help me please i am so confused. and cant you stay best friends after breaking up? why not? so please help. thanks ahead of time. (sorry for the ridiculous length)
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