well. im like that 4 months with out a boyfriend

maybe you need to find the perfect man and you havent found him yet

I'm sure there's somebody out there who likes you... maybe just target a guy that you really like and go for him- start flirting or whatever your style is - or you might change your mind and decide that it's kinda nice to be single.
Also don't be afraid to ask somebody out yourself. Sometimes guys just don't get the signals!
and don't feel like a loser or something... I've never had a boyfriend and I don't really mind.

as i said, its better not to have a boyfriend than having one that doesnt give a shit about you

Maybe you are ugly...

.... oooooooookay.

I think your account will close if you stay inactive for a long time though..

Don't delete your account. This is a site where people do give good advice, but with the good there will be some random bad comments also. Don't let those types of people get you down, there just taking there issues out on you, or there just being plain mean.

The guy that your interested in seems to see you as a friend perhaps at the moment, but maybe its because he doesn't know that your interested. People tend to develop interests/crushes on people outta the blue or if they know that someone else is interested in them. Don't give up hope!

And you'll find a boyfriend soon. Just don't settle for less, be outgoing, and start making conversations with lots of guys. You'll do great!

it does not close if u stay inactive i came here back after 5 months have a nice day :)

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contact aaron he will surely help u have a nice day

I don't know what to say,I hope you find somebody, sorry to hear about your situation:(

Frankly my dear, I'm in the same boat.
Just wait around, love hits us when we least expect it, so let you're guard down and you'll find that special someone.

as ZZ5 said just wait , after my and my ex broke up I was single for like 2-3 years then I met my current gf of 9 months , so just wait it out and I promise you , someone will come along.

Single for about a year too, and loving every second. Being single is underrated in my opinion. Definitely happily single here!

But hang in there, I find things happen when you least expect them too/ when you arent looking for them.

well with an attitude like that, being so negative, no one will

Hey.
Try not think of it like that.
I'm sure it's not you. Finding the right person can be difficult for many people, however that doesn't mean you're at fault. Waiting as you are doing is the best way of finding the right one, which you will find.
Some people don't mix in with the guys they meet, you may be opposite, but even if you were shy around men you're not at fault there either.
Don't worry, it's the same with me. Looks won't be associated as there will always be some guys that will find you their type.=]

just wait

Getting a guy is easy. Lower your standards a bit, flirt more, get more 'touchy' with a guy you are interested in. The question is if he is right for you, but that is the point of dating, testing the waters for a relationship. Ultimately date more.

So true

You dont have to have a boyfriend.

Some people do better on their own!

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4 months is a short amount of time, compared to how long youve been alive.