Ok so, I have this amazing sweet guy that reall likes me...we've dated before (last year) and I have loved him ever since. Our last relationship ended because he thought I cheated which I didn't but it's okay now and we'e always liked each other. His name is John and he is wonderful...but there's one thing.
I cannot stand people who smoke, it's so gross and unhealthy. He smoked last year before we started dating...I told him if he smoked I wouldn't date him so he quit and we dated,everything was fine. well after we broke up he was really sad and started smoking again. Not on a regular basis, just every now and then he says.
Well now that we're about to date again he tells me his parents are having major problems (about to get a divorce) so he has been somewhat depressed and that he may have to have a smoke every now and then to help him feel better. I told him it's not the answer to his problems and he said i know but still i can't promise you I won't smoke sometimes.
What do I do? What should I tell him? I feel that because he's so sad about his parents I shouldn't tell him what to do about the situation, ughh any suggestins??? I'm so frustrated! I love this boy :confused:
I cannot stand people who smoke, it's so gross and unhealthy. He smoked last year before we started dating...I told him if he smoked I wouldn't date him so he quit and we dated,everything was fine. well after we broke up he was really sad and started smoking again. Not on a regular basis, just every now and then he says.
Well now that we're about to date again he tells me his parents are having major problems (about to get a divorce) so he has been somewhat depressed and that he may have to have a smoke every now and then to help him feel better. I told him it's not the answer to his problems and he said i know but still i can't promise you I won't smoke sometimes.
What do I do? What should I tell him? I feel that because he's so sad about his parents I shouldn't tell him what to do about the situation, ughh any suggestins??? I'm so frustrated! I love this boy :confused:
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