honestly its a decision 2 be made by the individual. no relationship that is gonna last can be based on sex anyway. sex is just a fun act that can really fuck up your life if your not careful. its all personal preference dude
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Goddess of Judecca wrote:
Better question is why should I feel any different? Virginity is nothing to value. Sex is not an act of love or devotion or any of that romantic bullshit; it's just an act of copulation and enjoyment. It can be the latter with love, devotion, or romance, of course, but at its core, it isn't. My moral values, as far as sex go, tell me 1: sex is enjoyed by each person differently, and as long as they harm no other, then they can do whatever the hell they want with whomever the hell they want whenever the hell they want and 2: it is one of our most basic instincts to bring ourselves pleasure, and denying that for the sake of "virtue" with no logical basis is idiocy.
~Maggot
plax77 wrote:
Holy shit!!! you sound exactly like my best friend/ex... She said the exact same thing to me after I asked her why she had sex w/ this guys after knowing him for 3 weeks and dating him one day. I guess sex just means different things to different people. To me sex is the ultimate act of what you do w/ someone you love. It means a lot to me.
Goddess of Judecca wrote:
Butch Hancock said: "Life in Lubbock, Texas taught me two things. One is that God loves you, and you're going to burn in Hell. The other is that sex is the most awful, dirty thing on the face of the earth, and you should save it for someone you love."
~Maggot
mrgetbig50 wrote:
im a guy.. havent lost the V card
im still deciding if its good for me to stay that way till marriage and wat not...
but enough about me.. wat about you guys?
plax77 wrote:
I love the quote, but I don't think I understand the point you're trying to make. You said before that virginity is nothing to value, are you saying that you agree w/ me that you should only have sex w/ people you love?
mrgetbig50 wrote:
im a guy.. havent lost the V card
im still deciding if its good for me to stay that way till marriage and wat not...
but enough about me.. wat about you guys?
plax77 wrote:
I love the quote, but I don't think I understand the point you're trying to make. You said before that virginity is nothing to value, are you saying that you agree w/ me that you should only have sex w/ people you love?
prettygirl0725 wrote:
So you'll just do it with anyone?
BrittanyLeigh wrote:
I'm kind of at that point.. The first most attractive and experienced guy I can find. I really just want someone to respect me and not brag to their 'buddys' later. I just want to experience it already.. I've been waiting a long time.. and no one ever makes a move on me.. I guess i'm either really ugly or too intimidating to approach. *sigh*
BrittanyLeigh wrote:
I'm kind of at that point.. The first most attractive and experienced guy I can find. I really just want someone to respect me and not brag to their 'buddys' later. I just want to experience it already.. I've been waiting a long time.. and no one ever makes a move on me.. I guess i'm either really ugly or too intimidating to approach. *sigh*
Shute;2172895 wrote:
You are in the classic suck position.
prettygirl0725 wrote:
Just looking for some hot guy to throw yourself at is not going to get you respect and I can bet you anything he's most definately going to go bragging to his friends about it later on. I mean, some chick throws themself at him with no strings attached, what guy wouldn't brag about that? Sex isn't something you want to rush. If you do, you might regret that later.