On my 11th birthday my mum and dad separated. It was the hardest time of my life, I wasn't sure whether I was moving out of the house my dad owned or whether he would. I wasn't sure what my life was going to be about.
I hardly saw my dad from this point onwards and before I knew it he had a "new family of his own". I have never healed and I'll forever have scars. My mum never settled down, she was always dating somebody and I never liked any of them probably because I felt I had to hate them for my dads sake.
3 years ago mum met a man on online dating who she really liked. He sold his house, dad had sold his house (which we rented off him) and we moved to a small town living in the house this man had bought. I really liked him, he was like a real father to me. One I had missed out on since I was 11 years old.
Don't get me wrong, I love my real dad and I do see him sometimes even though he lives on the other side of the country.
Anyway, before this man my mother was used to going out to pubs, drinking, etc but when we moved she kind of settled down into housewife mode and ditched party going. This was mainly due to her not having any friends in this new town yet.
Recently she has found an old friend that lives near us now who she has been hanging out a lot with. She's become less like the mum I love. She has a hard shell now. She's abrupt and would rather go to the pub then be at home.
I commend her for getting back out there, she has a LOT more confidence now but my stepdad (they aren't married but he's like a dad anyway..) and my mum are very.. hostile towards each other.
Mum said she can't stand being around him anymore
My stepdad said mum's changed and he's going to kick her out or walk away.
I CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS.
I've been through this before. The splitting of furniture.. and hearts, the anger, the depression. The feeling of not belonging anywhere. They both talk me to me about it, both wanting me to help them but I can't do it. They both want too much from me. They've talked and it's got them nowhere so I don't know how they think I can help.
This is affecting my school work too. I'm getting suspended for telling a teacher to fuck off. She drove me over the edge when I was already at breaking point.
Mum is being selfish, my step dad is being stubborn. This is all going to end and I don't think I can do it again.
I hardly saw my dad from this point onwards and before I knew it he had a "new family of his own". I have never healed and I'll forever have scars. My mum never settled down, she was always dating somebody and I never liked any of them probably because I felt I had to hate them for my dads sake.
3 years ago mum met a man on online dating who she really liked. He sold his house, dad had sold his house (which we rented off him) and we moved to a small town living in the house this man had bought. I really liked him, he was like a real father to me. One I had missed out on since I was 11 years old.
Don't get me wrong, I love my real dad and I do see him sometimes even though he lives on the other side of the country.
Anyway, before this man my mother was used to going out to pubs, drinking, etc but when we moved she kind of settled down into housewife mode and ditched party going. This was mainly due to her not having any friends in this new town yet.
Recently she has found an old friend that lives near us now who she has been hanging out a lot with. She's become less like the mum I love. She has a hard shell now. She's abrupt and would rather go to the pub then be at home.
I commend her for getting back out there, she has a LOT more confidence now but my stepdad (they aren't married but he's like a dad anyway..) and my mum are very.. hostile towards each other.
Mum said she can't stand being around him anymore
My stepdad said mum's changed and he's going to kick her out or walk away.
I CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS.
I've been through this before. The splitting of furniture.. and hearts, the anger, the depression. The feeling of not belonging anywhere. They both talk me to me about it, both wanting me to help them but I can't do it. They both want too much from me. They've talked and it's got them nowhere so I don't know how they think I can help.
This is affecting my school work too. I'm getting suspended for telling a teacher to fuck off. She drove me over the edge when I was already at breaking point.
Mum is being selfish, my step dad is being stubborn. This is all going to end and I don't think I can do it again.
[RIGHT]I miss you Dad.
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