Personality wise, Funny, caring, loyal, passionate, a good listener, honest, etc.

Looks wise, it really doesnt matter I have dated people with all kinds of looks.

Its the personality that draws me.

Well let's see...

I think just accepting me for me. She would be alright with the hobbies I had.
Had to take jokes. Thats very important.

Next I would say that they cannot be loud and obnoxious all or most of the time. Even half of the time is a real big turn off.

Enjoys playing video games and or doesn't mind if I do.

Not much to it because I don't set the bar high so to speak.