Hey, This is a bit tedious, you don't have to read it if you don't want to.
I'm a bit confused at the moment. I'm a 17yo guy, and over the last few months I've been particularly ill, and I'm just getting better again now.
I've got a friend, let's call her Amy, she's 15, a year and a bit younger than me, but that's never been an issue! We got on really well, I met her in school, but since being ill I've only communicated with her via MSN because I've been stuck at home.
Quite simply, we were never best friends, we would sometimes chat a lot, and because she doesn't know any of my best friends, I find I can be really honest with her. Since being ill, she's probably the person I've chatted with the most, just because she's been on MSN and the rest of my friends haven't because of school stuff becoming quite intense, she's younger so it don't affect her.
Anyway, over the last couple of weeks, I've started chatting with her a lot, she could be on for hours at a time, and as far as I can see, we are getting on fine.
Quite frankly, she's lovely! I love chatting with her!
Last Thursday, I went back to my Doctor (I have to travel a long way to see a specialist), for him to give me the all clear (Yipeee), and she went to school to get her exam results. I wondered how she'd done so I sent her an e-mail from my iPhone, just saying good luck, and that I hope she gets the results she deserves.
Anyway, she never replied, she hasn't come online since. I know this by itself doesn't mean much, and I'd just ignored this. I found her on Facebook last night, and added her as a friend, only for her to have declined me by this morning, so she's obviously going online.
Quite simply, I feel like I'm being treated as if I've offended her, but I really don't think I have. If I have, I really didn't mean to. The fact is that I didn't know her much offline, so I haven't got any real way of communicating with her and trying to find out what is wrong.
Any ideas? I just want her as a friend, I can understand if she felt like I was hassling her, it's what happens when I've been stuck at home ill for nearly six months with MSN being my only contact with almost anyone! (It would be even better to take things further, but I'm very sure she doesn't like me in that way, so I'll avoid it at all costs to save overcomplicating things!).
I totally lost another friend, a girl a little bit older than her, in circumstances just like these, and never found out why. I did wonder if it was someone else's doing, but I've never been able to prove it.
I'm worried about doing anything, because if I do, then I'm worried it will make things worse, I'm just not sure what I can do. Any ideas would be much appreciated!
I'm a bit confused at the moment. I'm a 17yo guy, and over the last few months I've been particularly ill, and I'm just getting better again now.
I've got a friend, let's call her Amy, she's 15, a year and a bit younger than me, but that's never been an issue! We got on really well, I met her in school, but since being ill I've only communicated with her via MSN because I've been stuck at home.
Quite simply, we were never best friends, we would sometimes chat a lot, and because she doesn't know any of my best friends, I find I can be really honest with her. Since being ill, she's probably the person I've chatted with the most, just because she's been on MSN and the rest of my friends haven't because of school stuff becoming quite intense, she's younger so it don't affect her.
Anyway, over the last couple of weeks, I've started chatting with her a lot, she could be on for hours at a time, and as far as I can see, we are getting on fine.
Quite frankly, she's lovely! I love chatting with her!
Last Thursday, I went back to my Doctor (I have to travel a long way to see a specialist), for him to give me the all clear (Yipeee), and she went to school to get her exam results. I wondered how she'd done so I sent her an e-mail from my iPhone, just saying good luck, and that I hope she gets the results she deserves.
Anyway, she never replied, she hasn't come online since. I know this by itself doesn't mean much, and I'd just ignored this. I found her on Facebook last night, and added her as a friend, only for her to have declined me by this morning, so she's obviously going online.
Quite simply, I feel like I'm being treated as if I've offended her, but I really don't think I have. If I have, I really didn't mean to. The fact is that I didn't know her much offline, so I haven't got any real way of communicating with her and trying to find out what is wrong.
Any ideas? I just want her as a friend, I can understand if she felt like I was hassling her, it's what happens when I've been stuck at home ill for nearly six months with MSN being my only contact with almost anyone! (It would be even better to take things further, but I'm very sure she doesn't like me in that way, so I'll avoid it at all costs to save overcomplicating things!).
I totally lost another friend, a girl a little bit older than her, in circumstances just like these, and never found out why. I did wonder if it was someone else's doing, but I've never been able to prove it.
I'm worried about doing anything, because if I do, then I'm worried it will make things worse, I'm just not sure what I can do. Any ideas would be much appreciated!