ok im a girl. my boyfriend is 16 and im 14 were really really reallly close like a married couple lol but he thinks im too jealous. i asked him not to talk to this girl because she was leaving him i love u comments and stuff . well i didnt say he couldnt talk to her but i said it bothered me and that he should talk to her. then he didnt talk to her then she did it again and i was all upset that he didnt talk to her when i first said too and after he said something she sent me a message on myspace telling me that i shouldnt make such a frickin big deal about it. then he told her to mind her shit and stuff but hes the kinda guy who talks to his mom about everything. and he told me she thinks im over jealous. whatever like i care what his mom says and he shouldnt be talking to her about our personal business. on top of all this a week later his cousin who is my friend told me that her mom, his mom and his other aunt were sitting around talking about it and saying that im jealous and that its gonna affect how long we last. is it my fault?? i mean i cant help it
Jealousy
-
-
youre not alone if you are jealous. I get jealous too. I dont know how to fix that, unless youre confident enough in him to let him be around other girls and what not. You just have to know that hes not going to cheat.
Not sure if that helped.Yes I do! (no I dont)
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] -
I think its more a case of insecure than jealous, you need to trust him more, i mean after all he's with you isn't he?
I understand where you're coming from with the messages but as long as he isn't returning her feelings then you don't need to worry.
You need to relax more and ignore his mum, she probably doesn't have a clue about half of it and has no right to tell other people what he's told her.[CENTER][SIZE=2][/SIZE] [/CENTER] -
Yeah, I think you're too way jealous, and ultimately that will affect your relationship unless you change it soon. And I agree with Mercedes, it does seem like an insecurity thing. You really need to learn to trust your boyfriend more, and learn that just because he's a friend with a girl, doesn't mean he's automatically gunna cheat on you. The girl that leaves him "I love you" comments probably just loves him in a friendly way, and you were making way too big of a deal out of it. You can fix it, it's just gunna take time.+Laura+
-
You have every right to be jealous.
Don't worry about what his mom is saying,
if you think what you are telling him to do is the right thing, stick with it.
That bitch needs to back off and stop posting shit on his site.
If he doesn't stop, then break up with him, if he cares about you, he will grovel to get you back. -
on the otherside of the story, how serious was she being? Is she just being friendly, or is she blantently trying to steal your boyfriend? You have to trust him, a relationship is nothing with out trust. Ive had girlfriends who dont want me to socialize with any other girl on the face of this planet which i find rediculous. Never have i cheated on someone in my life. Nor have i felt the urge to while hanging out with friends containing another girls.
-
yes, you are jealous. You may not help it, but it is your fault that you are jealous.
-
I'm a jealous woman.. I don't like it, I wish I were different, but with lots of hotter girls out there than me, can you blame me for being worried?[CENTER]. : Hard Work Pays Off in the Long Run. Laziness Pays Off NOW : .[/CENTER]
[CENTER]:wink: Member of the Kind of Weird Sexy Club :wink: [/CENTER] -
It's just a fact of life that men cheat on their significant others with a younger and/or more attractive version.
Just accept it, make lamp chops, and the happier you both shall be.
The End. -
Umm Correction.
Ladies can be jealous, and men can be jealous,
but men cheat because most have tiny perverted brains..
Like this one.
-
yea.. all men cheat and they have tiny brains....
-
i have been in plenty of relationships, and never once cheated on my girlfriend.
-
It is natural to get jelous if you see your bf hanging round other girls, but you cant let jelously control your relationship. How would you feel if it was one of your friends that is a boy birthday and all you did was hug him to say happy birthday. How would you like it if your bf goes all crazy and stops you seeing him?Avacrafts online Boyfriend, Avacraft
-
BadMutha wrote:
yea.. all men cheat and they have tiny brains....
Yeah, because that's exactly what she said.
She said MOST you stupid twat.Signature Removed. -
haha i that brain pic.
dont worry about what they say because youre 14, right? and every teenage couple has their ups and downs, more downs than ups IMO, plus, you might think now that youll be together forever but i doubt you will. -
Angelwings411 wrote:
Umm Correction.
Ladies can be jealous, and men can be jealous,
but men cheat because most have tiny perverted brains..
Like this one.
i do not have a tiny brain, and my perverted brain isn't why I would cheat. Its because the girl isn't satisfying me in every way I require. :p -
Phuck Buddy wrote:
i do not have a tiny brain, and my perverted brain isn't why I would cheat. Its because the girl isn't satisfying me in every way I require. :p
Well, that would be my next point I would make..
Not "satisfying your needs." Atleast be a decent person and break up with the girl first before cheating..
And what makes you think, guys don't satisfy US GIRLS, needs.. hmm? -
Angelwings411 wrote:
Well, that would be my next point I would make..
Not "satisfying your needs." Atleast be a decent person and break up with the girl first before cheating..
Ya...that'll make it so much better. She'd still feel like shit either way: whether i break up with her and her finding out I diddled another girl that same night, OR giving her the power to break up with me. see what I'm doing there....I'm actually helping her gain more power when I cheat her. I am awesome.
Angelwings411 wrote:
And what makes you think, guys don't satisfy US GIRLS, needs.. hmm? -
$ air $ wrote:
haha i that brain pic.
dont worry about what they say because youre 14, right? and every teenage couple has their ups and downs, more downs than ups IMO, plus, you might think now that youll be together forever but i doubt you will.
yeah but were different then that. and i no everyone says that but we both have no one and were both going threw the same stuff. well me alot more stuff but hes the only one there for me. and were both the kinda people who wont give up no matter what
-
Share
- Facebook 0
- Twitter 0
- Google Plus 0
- Reddit 0