so my 18ths coming up and i dont really care/want to celebrate it some days i get excited but others im like its just another bday. is it normal to feel this way? my mum really wants to celebrate it and have a party and stuff and i dont i just start crying when she mentions things like that and i dont know why? has anyone felt like this before?
my 18th!
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I feel like that too. I'm turning 18 in December and everyone want's to have a party but I'm kind of bleh about it. It's weird, I'm already 18 years old? I feel old, like I haven't accomplished anything in life, and then I get a bit depressed.
I think I'll just run away for that one day.and then -
I turned 18 2 months ago. It was just like a normal party. Nothing special. I think I was ok with that.
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Noesohp wrote:
I turned 18 2 months ago. It was just like a normal party. Nothing special. I think I was ok with that.
yea the same with me when i turned 18 on june
it started with a fighting with my parents, crying 4 hours and feelin very very bad i was half dead
then 2 of my friends came at my works, talkin and remembering good times and laughing too 
then at home and in the evening i went out with my sister at a club but didnt enjoy it 2 much 
id really love to had a party, i thought about it but as a result NOTHING cuz i didnt have enough money plus my parents dont want to organise a party :mad::( anyway...
dont feel sad in that day cuz it's ur bday, just try to have a lot of fun dont think 4 other things...CHEER UP GIRL [SIZE=2]DONT HATE WHAT U CANT IMITATE
PROUD TO BE ALBANIAN (H)
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thank you Recondinent, Noesohp and Rap Spirit for all the help, i feel much better that im not the only one who feels/felt this way. so far im just organising a family event and a seperate friends one not haveing a party just going out for the day. i hope it will be good but i dont know. as i havent seen friends in a while.
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thank you too
Wish I could do something with some friends, but I dont' really have any in my new home (in a different country :P) But I have a huge family and I guess I can just use my birthday as an excuse to bring everyone together for food, and I'll be old enough to drink in front of them all so I'll get plastered as well xDand then -
pick up your dog
throw it into the sun[CENTER][FONT="Garamond"]This is the part of me that needs medication
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xxjulyxx wrote:
pick up your dog
throw it into the sun
huh??
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aww thats sucks heaps but i think the family thing is a good idea lol at getting plastered!! -
Make the most of your 18th and 21st. If you feel like that now, imagine what you will feel like with your 19th, 20th or even 24th...Birthdays get less special the older you get
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yeah last year [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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i did nothing for my 18th, never been one for hosting parties, i kinda just let my birthdays slip by every year. i go to everyone elses parties but never do anything for mine, its just a recipe for disaster in my books, especialy big parties, i laugh when i go to a huge party that is going to be awesome and blah blah blah and then there is thousands of pounds worth of damage done to the house its at.....
thats what happens when you invite 100 drunken 18 year olds to your 3 bed semi ya suckers
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well, my friends older sisters birthday is exactly the same day as mine, and i play rugby with her fiance so i usualy just geg in with their party and steal some of the glory. :rofl:
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