for a while now i have had at least one stalker, and before i got one at all, i thought the whole stalker thing was a joke. now? hell no. my stalker asked me out, and i said yes only because he carries a knife and we were alone and i was scared hed hurt me if i said no. so i then got my big brother to tell him to stay away from me, multiple times. all i can say to that is, thank god he goes to a different school. but now, today i found out i possibly have another stalker, this time he's younger than me and in my spanish class, but no where near as bad as the first one. this new stalker is actually a nice guy, but WAY overly nice, and kind of scares me because he's always tryin to hang about me nd my friends. if any one has any views on this or any suggestions, pls let me kno.:confused:
stalker......
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well how do you know hes a stalker??? like he might just like you, like unless hes like taking pictures of you and completely obsessing over you then i dont think hes a stalker, like he sounds fairly harmless, so talk to him and if you dont like him and dont want him hanging around you, just say so!!! otherwise he might get the wrong idea and get worse!!! nip it in the bud as it were!!!
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Politely tell him to leave you alone, or atleast tell him to back off abit but be nice! If he continues to follow you around and stuff tell him straight to piss off.. Since you said hes a nice guy, I'm sure he will back off.
Good luck
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i don't understand how these guys are stalkers.
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I think you think way too much of yourself. If you catch a guy looking at you that doesn't even mean he likes you never mind make him your stalker. A stalker is a psychopath with an unhealthy obsession with someone. They do things like follow you home and look through your rubbish, not try and hang around with the same people as you. I'm surprised you managed to have any friends if you really are that paranoid.
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Amy. wrote:
i don't understand how these guys are stalkers.
i think they just fancy you.
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Damn I hate paranoid girls. I was accused of being a perv because I looked at some girl and some girl though I fancied her because I was looking out the window and she sat near the window. These guys might just like you! A stalker is someone who follows you, harasses you, goes through your rubbish etc.
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Now is definitely the point where you might want to get the police involved if he keeps flashing his knife like that. If he's threatening you all like that then something needs to be done, like a restraining order or something along those lines. There's obviously something wrong with him, and he definitely sounds dangerous. Not so much a stalker as a psychopath in my opinion.
DizzyRockerX wrote:
well, the second guy isnt a stalker, i get i kinda overreacted about that. but the first guy is just plain dangerous, he's threatened to stab my brother, and me! and plus every time my best friend sees him, he singles her out, just cuz i used her as an excuse to get away from him once. he keeps on following me, and my friend. also, one of my other friends said that her sister was at a local club one night and he came up to her and asked her if she was scared, when she said no, he took out his knife! she tried to go to a different part of the club but he kept following her. if that isnt freaky stalkerish, i dont know what is.[CENTER]
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The other people who commented on this post may be right about you being paranoid, but I say you have a reason to be. Bad experiences in the past can really affect how you behave now.
The second guy probably isn't a stalker. Just ask him to leave you alone nicely. You don't want him to be led on.
As for the first guy, I suggest you go to the police and always have someone with you as much as possible.
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tell him you're a lesbian or that you go for relationships for the emotions, not the sex... that's wut my friend did and her stalker went away!fuck.
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plax77 wrote:
tell him you're a lesbian or that you go for relationships for the emotions, not the sex... that's wut my friend did and her stalker went away!
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tell him u dont go out with dogs
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