advise please?

jpj · Oct 14th 2009, 8:15am

hi i dont know what to do?

theres this person ive been friends with for a while, were good frineds.
its obvious that my friend likes me. my friend went to me for advise when one of my friends asked them out and they declined..

i got dumped a few weeks ago but im still friends with my x and i dont think im over it yet..

the person that likes me, i dont know if i like them back i dont hate them or any thing but i dont know if i should make a relationship out of it?

i wouldn't mind a relationship with them but i dont know what i should do?

thank you...

DaveDaiquiri · Oct 14th 2009, 8:31am

Give it time and be honest, straight up.

Sonnenschein · Oct 14th 2009, 12:26pm

yah give it time ! don't jump from one relationship into the next. I don't know if I'm old-fashioned or why i think so, but in my opinion you should just date someone if you are really really sure about your feelings.. so try to figure it out.. and be honest about it!

kurtis49 · Oct 14th 2009, 12:44pm

learn to spell, you are obviously to dumb to be in a relationship

jpj · Oct 14th 2009, 8:14pm

alright thanks..

I Promise · Oct 15th 2009, 10:08am

I personally wouldn't go out with someone if you are not sure. I always think that instinct is usually right, and if you're not 100% sure, or don't have those feelings that you 'have to have them', then it would say to me that you like them, as a friend more, and not really as a partner. And if you try and date them, with those shallow emotions, you run the risk of it not working, and you lose a friend out of it, which sucks.

You have sort of answered your own question. You are still thinking about your ex, it wasn't your decision to end that relationship, so you're thinking about it still, and can't turn those emotions off just like that. It's hard. You need to give yourself some time to get over this, before you move on.

sharie9216 · Oct 16th 2009, 1:42am

After I break up with a guy, I need a while to be single. Don't rush it. And if you really want to get over your ex, stop talking to him. It works.

h3sean · Oct 17th 2009, 4:35am

Think about your goals first. What's your goal in pursuing a relationship? Is it just to feel good because someone reciprocates your love? That's a selfish end.
If you really love the person, then you should look to the commitment of marriage and not on a feel-good selfish relationship

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