How to tell my girlfriend i want to have sex with her?

Teenster · Oct 26th 2009, 7:06pm

I am still a virgin and I have a girlfriend. She was my friend from kinder garden and we kissed for the first time few months ago and now we are like boyfriend & girlfriend but we never had sex or even talked about it.

I would like to have a sex with her, but I am too embarrassed to tell her. I tried a few times, but it's like I loose my voice and become afraid. My parents think I am too young and should not worry about it now. But what if I never sleep with a girl because I am afraid? Some of my friends already slept with girls. And how do I know if I can please her? My girlfriend never talks about sex.

the sandman · Oct 26th 2009, 7:11pm

how old are you

Liam · Oct 26th 2009, 7:13pm

I was actually going to make a thread similar to this because I'm sort of in the same boat as you.

Dom · Oct 26th 2009, 7:14pm

tell her you want to take your relationship to the next level

Teenster · Oct 26th 2009, 7:14pm

I am almost 15 and my girlfriend is 16.

Bektas · Oct 26th 2009, 7:22pm

Play this song

[ame='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWvgojF_h9s']YouTube - I Wanna Sex You Up by Color Me Badd[/ame]

Joking aside do what Dom said, Start a casual conversation about your realtionship and say you want to take it to the next level...

In my opinion its very rare to see a 14 year old dude together with a 16 year old girl. Girls usually go for an older/mature guy from experience. I know its only a 2 year difference but at those ages its very different.

RainbowPebbles · Oct 26th 2009, 7:27pm

Maybe you can start out by bringing up the subject. Maybe not about you and your girlfriend having sex, but just sex in general and see how she responds to that.

Chris! · Oct 26th 2009, 8:12pm

Umm, I want to be the first to say that kissing for the first time only a few months ago is too early to be talking about having sex. I had a "thing" with my girlfriend for over a year until we had sex. I regret it because now I have a child to get ready for... but again, too early to talk about sex.

aloneintheworld · Oct 27th 2009, 12:06am

you should not be having sex at all!!
Not at that age espeacially.
Get some sense and wait till you want children : S

harribum · Oct 27th 2009, 3:35pm

I hate that people think that age is a factor. It's basically irrelevant.
Yeah, like someone else said, just bring up the topic about sex.
Other than that, when she's round yours or whatever and you're getting off, just kinda hint and see how she responds to that, same old.

PyromaniacBlackWings · Oct 27th 2009, 4:14pm

Well first of all, make sure you aren't doing it because your friends have, you mentioned that some of your friends already had so just keep in mind that you should do it because you want to. Also, it really isn't a good idea doing it at your age, besides you've only been going out a few months so to be honest in both age and relationship wise its too early and you might end up ruining it before it can start. If you're still fixated on it, just talk to her, ask her what she wants, don't make the mistake of seeming like some rabid sex hounds.. [I loled there =P]

:rolleyes::p

harribum wrote:

I hate that people think that age is a factor. It's basically irrelevant.
Yeah, like someone else said, just bring up the topic about sex.
Other than that, when she's round yours or whatever and you're getting off, just kinda hint and see how she responds to that, same old.

By the way, age is totally a factor, i mean i understand your point but consider that kid who nearly got a girl preggers just cause he wanted a quick shag x.x' Get a grip, if age really didn't matter he would have had the sense to try and stop it from happening.

ily · Oct 27th 2009, 8:06pm

just get up the courage to ask her. or go into the "mood".

ExitHope · Oct 27th 2009, 8:24pm

Never do anything out of pressure. I'm not going to pull the whole I-know-more-than-you-'cause-I'm-older deal, but I have a friend that said he regretted bumping uglies at 14 beacuse he felt pressured. It wasn't with a girl he felt anything for, and he had no idea what he was doing.

Fudgepuppy · Oct 27th 2009, 9:54pm

Just tell her. Straight up like a man-dragon.

xNerRadx · Oct 27th 2009, 10:31pm

harribum wrote:

I hate that people think that age is a factor. It's basically irrelevant.
Yeah, like someone else said, just bring up the topic about sex.
Other than that, when she's round yours or whatever and you're getting off, just kinda hint and see how she responds to that, same old.

Age is a factor for people who have morals (sex-wise) . But anyway, if it's that important to you to have sex, then tell her you love her like every other guy lol. Apparently any girl will fall for that (speaking from what I've heard). But my true from the bottom of my heart advice is....WAIT!!!!!

Inuyash · Oct 27th 2009, 11:47pm

"Wanna bone."

Simple.

Daniellelovesyou21 · Oct 28th 2009, 1:40am

tell he to sit on ur lap and talk about the first thing that comes up

Mama Bear · Oct 28th 2009, 1:42am

"I want to have sex."
"I want to bone you."
"I want to shove my hot dog into your donut hole."
Come on mann just say it. Be blunt about it. Take controlll.

Niceguy · Oct 28th 2009, 1:55am

Ahahahahahahhahahahhahahahah

My Mom is yelling at my bro about safe sex.

Mama Bear · Oct 28th 2009, 1:56am

Lol.

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