i am breaking down crying at this very moment as i type.
long story short, my dad was completly HORRIBLE tonite to me over something completly small. i dont wanna get into this, but heres the bottom line:
How can i cope if i act more maturely than my dad does?
he was shaking me, yelling at the top of his lungs, stomping his feet, yelling borderline abusive things at me, and refusing to let me speak in my defense.
the issue was that i was a little late coming home, and im 17 years old.
in my mind, being late is indeed my bad, but he was COMPLETLY overreacting. i stayed calm, apoligized, and then politely told him that he's being over dramatic. But he just continued to terrorize me.
I am TIRED of being the more mature one. i know that i do not deserve to be treated like that. But how do i get him to grow up? how can i endure this pain? i can't take it anymore i need a father i can look up to. you have no idea how awful it is....
long story short, my dad was completly HORRIBLE tonite to me over something completly small. i dont wanna get into this, but heres the bottom line:
How can i cope if i act more maturely than my dad does?
he was shaking me, yelling at the top of his lungs, stomping his feet, yelling borderline abusive things at me, and refusing to let me speak in my defense.
the issue was that i was a little late coming home, and im 17 years old.
in my mind, being late is indeed my bad, but he was COMPLETLY overreacting. i stayed calm, apoligized, and then politely told him that he's being over dramatic. But he just continued to terrorize me.
I am TIRED of being the more mature one. i know that i do not deserve to be treated like that. But how do i get him to grow up? how can i endure this pain? i can't take it anymore i need a father i can look up to. you have no idea how awful it is....
-Jessica
