Pregnancy: Opinion and Story

    • Pregnancy: Opinion and Story

      Ok. So for those of you with kids (like me) or who had abortions: (really anyone actually)

      1. What is your view on abortions?
      2. Adoptions?
      3. Going through and keeping the kid?

      4. Do you want to get pregnant?
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents?

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life)
      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you?
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently?

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      End of Survey

      For me.. I was happy getting pregnant. First time when I was 14, second when I was 15. I kept both of the kids (John [2] and Lia [1]) and I am now about to turn 16.

      I was treated differently at school, mainly cause I had the kids with two different guys. I am finishing high school, but I probably won't go to college. I never planned to, really. The guys are both great with the kids. I actually am currently in a relationship with either, so now I have three guys coming over all the time (Daniel, current BF + Grant, John's dad + Tim, Lia's dad). I am sexually active, and I would be happy to be pregnant again. I know Danny actually wants it.

      I started having sex at around age 14. I know that is young, but I was ready. My first time was at a party. I had sex with 8 guys that night, each for about an hour. I had used condoms then. After that night, I decided that Grant was the hottest and best at fucking. So he became my boyfriend. Because my parents are divorced, and my dad lets me do whatever I want.. I went over to Grant's house EVERY night. For 6 months, we had sex each night. But one night, he ran out of condoms. So we fucked without one, and of course I got prego. The pregnancy was easy, and I have birth to John on December 14. A year later, Grant and I realized our relationship was ending. We were still friends, but he now liked a girl named Sadie and I liked Tim. Tim and I first fucked in my bedroom, while my dad was away on a business trip. Because condoms got too expensive, I started taking birth control. One morning, I forgot. I was too busy! I had sex then, and got pregnant. Again, I had a pretty easy time, and gave birth to Lia.

      Tim and I stayed together for a while, but then I met Daniel. Daniel was perfect.. I was his study partner for a project, which is how we got together. Tim and I remained perfectly nice to each other, but I started seeing Danny. I first had sex with Danny a month ago. It was the best time I have had, and I am soo happy I met him. Danny has told me he wants to be a father, and I am thinking of trying with him. I never have regretted having children, even though my parents are rich I know that it is up to me. I feel that girls should be able to do what they want; it's their life and they should live it to the fullest!
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      (I will take my own survey!)

      1. What is your view on abortions? hate them
      2. Adoptions? ok
      3. Going through and keeping the kid? best

      4. Do you want to get pregnant? sure, read story above
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? my dad wouldn't care, I have 2 kids

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life) idk.. its hard for the mom socially
      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you? no, but i know a girl who fucked at age 12 and is now a freak
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently? yes, but they get over it.. (its amazing what tits can do)

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      1. What is your view on abortions? I see nothing wrong with them, but that may come from the fact that I don't like children. I do see them as reeaaally disgusting though, 'cause I've seen what they do.
      2. Adoptions? I have no problem with it whatsoever. I think it's good to give a child a good life instead of being alone.
      3. Going through and keeping the kid? That is a choice that needs to be made for and from the mother only, imo. If she wants it, and can handle it then go for it.

      4. Do you want to get pregnant? No.
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? I probably wouldn't. I'd go get the abortion.

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life) Money is an issue, having a kid costs a lot. If you're not able to do that then you will need help. There's the fact that there may also be social alienation.
      7. Social Pressures: Abortion or not to abort. That is a big thing in society these days but the one who needs to make the final decision is the mother, for her and what she wants for the baby and no one else. And as I said before, social alienation.
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you? No, I was told to wait. Since then I've become extremely adverse to the idea.
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently? N/A
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      1. What is your view on abortions? I think that they can be a useful choice for many people. I wish that the option did not need to exist, but that's just my fantasy world.
      2. Adoptions? Same as abortion.
      3. Going through and keeping the kid? I think it's a fine choice for some. Not a choice that I agree with often (especially on teen forums), but as with the other two options it's their right to make the choice.

      4. Do you want to get pregnant?       Some day. Definitely not for a few years.
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? If it were an unwanted pregnancy then I would not tell my parents. If it were wanted then I'd probably go out to dinner with them and my guy and we'd tell them together.

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life)       There are different effects for different people. Some people have more support than others. I think that a lot of people try to turn a blind eye to the negative effects in order to feel better and more "fuzzy" about the choice, but people do that with all sorts of things in life, not just pregnancy.
      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you?       I don't think so. I was the first of my friends to lose my virginity, and it was kind of embarrassing actually.
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently? I'm not sure. I'm pretty honest with the fact that I've had an abortion, and it's a big thing that has shaped me as a person. I suppose that you do tend to look at people differently when you know they've been pregnant, but luckily I have not had anyone react negatively towards me about it.

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      1. What is your view on abortions?
      The more the merrier. :)
      2. Adoptions?
      I'd like to adopt.
      3. Going through and keeping the kid?
      Generally not a good idea.

      4. Do you want to get pregnant?
      Eventually
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents?
      I'd just tell them.

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life)
      A teenager keeping a kid is usually a bad idea. Inhibits education and income, but most of all most teenagers aren't mature enough to handle a child.
      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you?
      No and no.
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently?
      Never been
      For me.. I was happy getting pregnant. First time when I was 14, second when I was 15. I kept both of the kids (John [2] and Lia [1]) and I am now about to turn 16.

      I was treated differently at school, mainly cause I had the kids with two different guys. I am finishing high school, but I probably won't go to college. I never planned to, really. The guys are both great with the kids. I actually am currently in a relationship with either, so now I have three guys coming over all the time (Daniel, current BF + Grant, John's dad + Tim, Lia's dad). I am sexually active, and I would be happy to be pregnant again. I know Danny actually wants it.

      I started having sex at around age 14. I know that is young, but I was ready. My first time was at a party. I had sex with 8 guys that night, each for about an hour. I had used condoms then. After that night, I decided that Grant was the hottest and best at fucking. So he became my boyfriend. Because my parents are divorced, and my dad lets me do whatever I want.. I went over to Grant's house EVERY night. For 6 months, we had sex each night. But one night, he ran out of condoms. So we fucked without one, and of course I got prego. The pregnancy was easy, and I have birth to John on December 14. A year later, Grant and I realized our relationship was ending. We were still friends, but he now liked a girl named Sadie and I liked Tim. Tim and I first fucked in my bedroom, while my dad was away on a business trip. Because condoms got too expensive, I started taking birth control. One morning, I forgot. I was too busy! I had sex then, and got pregnant. Again, I had a pretty easy time, and gave birth to Lia.

      Tim and I stayed together for a while, but then I met Daniel. Daniel was perfect.. I was his study partner for a project, which is how we got together. Tim and I remained perfectly nice to each other, but I started seeing Danny. I first had sex with Danny a month ago. It was the best time I have had, and I am soo happy I met him. Danny has told me he wants to be a father, and I am thinking of trying with him. I never have regretted having children, even though my parents are rich I know that it is up to me. I feel that girls should be able to do what they want; it's their life and they should live it to the fullest!
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      ufo wrote:

      Ok. So for those of you with kids (like me) or who had abortions: (really anyone actually)

      1. What is your view on abortions?
      2. Adoptions?
      3. Going through and keeping the kid?

      4. Do you want to get pregnant?
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents?

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life)
      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you?
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently?

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      End of Survey

      For me.. I was happy getting pregnant. First time when I was 14, second when I was 15. I kept both of the kids (John [2] and Lia [1]) and I am now about to turn 16.

      I was treated differently at school, mainly cause I had the kids with two different guys. I am finishing high school, but I probably won't go to college. I never planned to, really. The guys are both great with the kids. I actually am currently in a relationship with either, so now I have three guys coming over all the time (Daniel, current BF + Grant, John's dad + Tim, Lia's dad). I am sexually active, and I would be happy to be pregnant again. I know Danny actually wants it.

      I started having sex at around age 14. I know that is young, but I was ready. My first time was at a party. I had sex with 8 guys that night, each for about an hour. I had used condoms then. After that night, I decided that Grant was the hottest and best at fucking. So he became my boyfriend. Because my parents are divorced, and my dad lets me do whatever I want.. I went over to Grant's house EVERY night. For 6 months, we had sex each night. But one night, he ran out of condoms. So we fucked without one, and of course I got prego. The pregnancy was easy, and I have birth to John on December 14. A year later, Grant and I realized our relationship was ending. We were still friends, but he now liked a girl named Sadie and I liked Tim. Tim and I first fucked in my bedroom, while my dad was away on a business trip. Because condoms got too expensive, I started taking birth control. One morning, I forgot. I was too busy! I had sex then, and got pregnant. Again, I had a pretty easy time, and gave birth to Lia.

      Tim and I stayed together for a while, but then I met Daniel. Daniel was perfect.. I was his study partner for a project, which is how we got together. Tim and I remained perfectly nice to each other, but I started seeing Danny. I first had sex with Danny a month ago. It was the best time I have had, and I am soo happy I met him. Danny has told me he wants to be a father, and I am thinking of trying with him. I never have regretted having children, even though my parents are rich I know that it is up to me. I feel that girls should be able to do what they want; it's their life and they should live it to the fullest!
      :kiss::kiss:

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      (I will take my own survey!)

      1. What is your view on abortions? hate them
      2. Adoptions? ok
      3. Going through and keeping the kid? best

      4. Do you want to get pregnant? sure, read story above
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? my dad wouldn't care, I have 2 kids

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life) idk.. its hard for the mom socially
      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you? no, but i know a girl who fucked at age 12 and is now a freak
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently? yes, but they get over it.. (its amazing what tits can do)



      1. What is your view on abortions? A GOOD WAY TO AVOID PREGNANCIES. AND I APPROVE OF ABORTIONS. IF YOU DONT WANT THE KID, REMOVE IT FROM YOUR BODY.

      2. Adoptions? WHAT ABOUT IT? I GUESS IT'S GOOD FOR PEOPLE WHO CAN'T HAVE KIDS.

      3. Going through and keeping the kid? THAT IS RIDICULOUS. IF YOU HAVE NO MONEY TO MAINTAIN A KID, THE KID IS GONNA SUFFER. NO GOOD HOUSING, NO GOOD FOOD. COME ON NOW.

      4. Do you want to get pregnant? MAYBE ONE OF THE BROADS I FUCKED BECAME PREGNANT, BUT LUCKILY I AM NOT AWARE OF IT. BUT I DOUBT I HAVE ONE ANTI CONDOM JR OUT THERE. BUT I WANT A KID.

      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? THAT AINT MY PROBLEM HOW SHE TELLS THE PARENTS. I FUCKED, SPLATTED AND IN MY HOME. MY PARENTS KNOW I WANT A KID, BUT NOT ANYTIME SOON.

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life) IT IS PURE RIDICULOUS. LIKE THE SAYING GOES...BABIES HAVING BABIES IS A NO NO.

      7. Social Pressures: WHAT PRESSURE? I AM THE ANTI CONDOM REVOLUTION.

      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you? NOT PRESSURED. IVE BEEN A HORNBALL SINCE I WAS A TEENY WEENY, BUT I SAW PORN AND THAT DROVE ME TO SEX. I WASNT PRESSURED TO FUCK. PORN MOVIES TOLD ME TO FUCK AND I LOVE PORN NOW.

      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently?       THIS DOES NOT APPLY TO ME. TOOTLES.

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      I have a two year old son =]

      1. What is your view on abortions?
      i have been pregnant twice ive kept my first (dylan) and I've also had an abortion, its absolutely emotionally painful, and im beggining to regret it lately, just wasnt the right time, wouldnt have been fair on the child.


      2. Adoptions?
      cool.

      3. Going through and keeping the kid?
      best decision ive ever made, but for girls who have no support/money dont do it

      4. Do you want to get pregnant?
      id love to get pregnant again, but when im older.

      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents?
      lol.

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life)
      =] you have to pretty much sacrifice your life to raise another which is fine i wouldnt have had it any other way but it is extremely hard, and i hate how common teen pregnany is becomming id encourage anybody under the age of 18 to be fuckin careful

      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you?
      ... id rather not answer =]

      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently?
      sure did, i loved it =]
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      1. What is your view on abortions? At one point of time, I believed that Abortions shouldn't happened but, after experiencing it. It's a lot of to go through.
      2. Adoptions? I would love to adopt, If I can have children, physically myself.
      3. Going through and keeping the kid? If was prepared I would have.

      4. Do you want to get pregnant?       Maybe at one point when I'm ready, I would. I have been through it already but, I had to make the right choice.

      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? Yes.
      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life) I think your life is going to be difficult, your bringing another life into the world. Going out to isn't going to be easy. Finding the right childcare. There's a lot of Loony's around these days that will shake your child. Even sometimes, just trying to spend alot of time with friends isn't going to be easy, because alot of your friend would look at you differently.

      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you? no.
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently? No.
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      Im not going to read or answer any of these questions.

      But my opinion that any teenagers who have children at such an age (16 or whatever) are absolutely stupid for keeping it, for one you have totally messed up your life, education, friendships and career all change immediately, not to mention the effect on the kid.
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      kurtis49 wrote:

      Im not going to read or answer any of these questions.

      But my opinion that any teenagers who have children at such an age (16 or whatever) are absolutely stupid for keeping it, for one you have totally messed up your life, education, friendships and career all change immediately, not to mention the effect on the kid.



      Mate, you are a dickhead.

      its the best fucking decision i ever made i have an amazing life because of my boy, hes perfectly healthy, safe and financially secure, probably everything your not.
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      Ok. So for those of you with kids (like me) or who had abortions: (really anyone actually)

      1. What is your view on abortions? I'm pro choice.
      2. Adoptions? Like me adopting child or giving my child to adoption? Me adopting is good. Giving mine child to adoption not very good.
      3. Going through and keeping the kid? Depends when. Now not.

      4. Do you want to get pregnant? Now not, maybe some day.
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? /

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life)
      7. Social Pressures:
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you? No I wasn't pressured to be sexually active.
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently? /

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      1. What is your view on abortions? i think its only okay when necessary. like if the baby's life or the mother's life is in danger by giving birth.
      2. Adoptions? i think if you're in america, you should adopt an american child. why do people adopt kids from all over the world when there are just as under-privileged kids in their own backyard waiting for a family?
      3. Going through and keeping the kid? only if you're financially stable.

      4. Do you want to get pregnant? i'm a guy, but i don't want children.
      5. If you did, how would you tell your parents? i would straight up tell them. and as bad as it sounds, i would tell my baby mama how i feel about not having children. i feel very strongly about it. i would recommend giving it up for adoption because especially right now in my life, i could not and would not support a child.

      6. Opinion on keeping the kid (Effects on a teen's life) sure, there would be challenges, but its the mother's choice.
      7. Social Pressures: she'd probably be looked down upon. people would call her a slut and everything else. but you just have to be strong-minded.
      A. Were you pressured to be sexually active from a young age? Did this harm you? no, not really.
      B. If you have been prego, did people look at/ think about you differently?


      a girl in my school got pregnant when she was 11 and had her son when she was 12. she's now 17, a junior in high school. she had another son when she was 14, and a daughter when she was 16. her oldest son is in kindergarten, the other is 3, and her daughter is two. her boyfriend, the father of all three children, lives with her family because he got kicked out of his house. and they live a happy life. the girl got held back one year, but she says its worth it. but her family is rather wealthy, so there isn't much of a financial problem there. she plans on becoming a nurse, and i can see her doing it. she's an A-B student, and although her parents help out financially, she's raised her kids mostly by herself. it can be done. it just makes life harder, that's all.

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      kurtis49 wrote:

      That is my opinion, you are open to yours.


      You can't have an opinion on her life when you know nothing about it.
      Not all 16 year-olds who have kids are irrisponsible. A lot are , but not all.
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