Ok here's a little background story... I've liked this girl, Nikki, for about 2 months now I think. The first problem: she has a boyfriend. She's had two I think within those 2 months, I just didnt act fast enough when she was actually single -__-. She told me recently that she didnt think that she and her boyfriend would last much longer, and of course I feel bad for her, but it still opened up a little hope. But this leads to the 2nd problem: she didnt know.
Yeah, DIDNT know, as in she does now. She found out two days ago durring lunch at school. I was planning on telling her later, but one of our friends (who didnt know that I liked her, apparently it was kinda obvious at the moment) blurted it out. When that happened everything just went black and white for me. It took me by suprise, I probably sat there for 30 seconds before even looking at Nikki. She was just sitting there, reading the note I wrote her (we write notes to each other since she cant get on Myspace). When she looked up, we just kind of looked at each other for a minute. I was thinking "What do I say what do I say WHAT DO I SAY?!" But I didnt say anything. So she just started asking questions about things in the note. So now I'm like "...ok..." I could tell she wanted to ask me if I really did like her, even if it WAS obvious now.
I was wondering how she'd react when I (was originally planning to) tell her that afternoon, but when she found out at lunch she really didnt react at all. I dont know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. I mean, I think she might like me, too, she's acted like it before kinda. I wrote her another note explaining everything (that the friend was right, yadda yadda yadda), but I wont be able to give it to her until Monday, thanks to Thanksgiving -___-.
I honestly dont know what to do... I know that there's not much I CAN do since she still has a boyfriend and all. I also dont know if she'll treat me any different knowing that I have feelings for her... That's what I'm afraid of the most. Well, say they do break up, what do I do then? Wait to make sure she's not upset about the break up then ask her out? If they dont break up, well then what do I do? It'll be REALLY weird having her know I like her... Which is sad, because it shouldn't be weird.
So can somebody please tell me what I should do? Or better yet, shouldn't do? ANY help is greatly appreciated...
Yeah, DIDNT know, as in she does now. She found out two days ago durring lunch at school. I was planning on telling her later, but one of our friends (who didnt know that I liked her, apparently it was kinda obvious at the moment) blurted it out. When that happened everything just went black and white for me. It took me by suprise, I probably sat there for 30 seconds before even looking at Nikki. She was just sitting there, reading the note I wrote her (we write notes to each other since she cant get on Myspace). When she looked up, we just kind of looked at each other for a minute. I was thinking "What do I say what do I say WHAT DO I SAY?!" But I didnt say anything. So she just started asking questions about things in the note. So now I'm like "...ok..." I could tell she wanted to ask me if I really did like her, even if it WAS obvious now.
I was wondering how she'd react when I (was originally planning to) tell her that afternoon, but when she found out at lunch she really didnt react at all. I dont know if that's a good thing or a bad thing. I mean, I think she might like me, too, she's acted like it before kinda. I wrote her another note explaining everything (that the friend was right, yadda yadda yadda), but I wont be able to give it to her until Monday, thanks to Thanksgiving -___-.
I honestly dont know what to do... I know that there's not much I CAN do since she still has a boyfriend and all. I also dont know if she'll treat me any different knowing that I have feelings for her... That's what I'm afraid of the most. Well, say they do break up, what do I do then? Wait to make sure she's not upset about the break up then ask her out? If they dont break up, well then what do I do? It'll be REALLY weird having her know I like her... Which is sad, because it shouldn't be weird.
So can somebody please tell me what I should do? Or better yet, shouldn't do? ANY help is greatly appreciated...
"The only thing worse than losing my life would be to lose you." - Me
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