Last night I went to a party with a few friends and had a bit too much drink. I was quite emotional at the time, because of other reasons and so my friends older brother came to comfort me. This older brother is one of my ex's.. and is also currently dating one of my best friends. We were talking and hugging and next thing I know he starts kissing me... and I admit it took me a few seconds to pull away. Then later on the night I was laying down and he came to lay next to me and started touching me, groping my breasts and then we started making out. He wanted to go further but I hated myself for what I'd let happen already.
So the question is what do I do now? I know he feels horrible about the whole thing and probably regrets it like I do. We agreed that we had to tell his girlfriend, because we felt horribly bad. But doing so will mean we will lose a large proportion of our closest friends and respect. A thought occurred to me that maybe I should keep it a secret, spare her feelings.. and though I'd probably feel guilty everyday and be disgusted with myself, she and he could stay together and be happy. Because I know they both love each other very much.
So, any advice or thoughts?
So the question is what do I do now? I know he feels horrible about the whole thing and probably regrets it like I do. We agreed that we had to tell his girlfriend, because we felt horribly bad. But doing so will mean we will lose a large proportion of our closest friends and respect. A thought occurred to me that maybe I should keep it a secret, spare her feelings.. and though I'd probably feel guilty everyday and be disgusted with myself, she and he could stay together and be happy. Because I know they both love each other very much.
So, any advice or thoughts?