So I have a friend whos been close to me since 2-3 years. The thing is now that he has a GF, he acts all cocky: he's using me. See in our culture, parents are severe and they definately dont allow dating. What this guy does now is tell his mom that hes with me. He is telling the truth; partially. He is also with his GF. He invites all of his friends all tell his mom that he was with his friends, when he doesnt even talk to us. He just makes out with his GF and sweet talk to her. I even tried to talk to him, but Romeo is too busy making out with his girl. When his mom calls, he doesnt answer the phone. Then she calls ME 80 times.
I'm really tired of protecting this guy when in fact, hes using me. I dont know if I should be mad at him. I'm not going to brag, but people tell me that I am the most forgiving person. So is it OK if I'm mad at him or am I overreacting?
Another question: Me and my friends dont know if we should ditch this guy from our group?
Because first of all, he used one of my friends so he can have a ride at a restaurant. He called my friend up just for a ride, and didnt even talked to him at the restaurant because he was making out with his girl.He pretends that we dont exist when we call his name. Oh and his GF is a girl my friend liked, and he snatched her away.
And second of all, the guy wants me to do his homework, pay his food,etc. He never pays me back. And once I payed him for the food and just asked him to throw at the burgers and the fries he wasted he said : "what, im not your slave...and im not a janitor".
The only thing is, the guys a good guy at heart, but has way too many flaws.
I'm really tired of protecting this guy when in fact, hes using me. I dont know if I should be mad at him. I'm not going to brag, but people tell me that I am the most forgiving person. So is it OK if I'm mad at him or am I overreacting?
Another question: Me and my friends dont know if we should ditch this guy from our group?
Because first of all, he used one of my friends so he can have a ride at a restaurant. He called my friend up just for a ride, and didnt even talked to him at the restaurant because he was making out with his girl.He pretends that we dont exist when we call his name. Oh and his GF is a girl my friend liked, and he snatched her away.
And second of all, the guy wants me to do his homework, pay his food,etc. He never pays me back. And once I payed him for the food and just asked him to throw at the burgers and the fries he wasted he said : "what, im not your slave...and im not a janitor".
The only thing is, the guys a good guy at heart, but has way too many flaws.