I am debating whether or not I should ask a girl out by writing it in a card for valentine's day. We were hoping to hang out together on Thursday, but she found out today about a class officer meeting that she has to go to. There's no school Friday or Monday, so if I don't do anything Thursday I won't see her again until Tuesday. Personally, I think it would be better to ask her out in person, but she's been fairly busy lately with meetings and stuff so we haven't had as much time as we would like to hang out. That's why I thought of giving her a card.

Do you think it would be better to wait until we have some time alone or should I go ahead and get her a card? Also, if I do go for the card, I'm not sure how to ask her out in it, if anyone has any ideas, that would be great.

thanks for the quick responses! that sounds good to me, i think I'll do that.

actually, i have another question;

does anyone think it would be nice to just buy her a card, or maybe I could hand make one? I say that because I wonder if it would be more personal for her if i go and make it myself. any opinions on that? or does that seem a little weird?