We became close friends and 9th grade and he confessed to being bi and liking me. One thing lead to another and the next thing you know, he's sending me dick pictures. My parents find them and we don't talk for 2 years. Just recently, I got a facebook and he adds me as a friend. We start talking again, and we might try and get together and see where things go. Now, I like this guy and think of him when I'm not around him. But, when I see him, I'm really not attracted to him. Should I go for him anyway and see where things lead?
So this guy...
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I'd say give it a shot. I mean you think about him when he's not around so maybe if you try it out, you might find that he's more attractive after you get closer together. And if it doesn't work out then at least you tried.20/M/Suquamish, WA, USA/Gay
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It's not gonna work out if you're not attracted to him.
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Dr.Light wrote:
That sounds so shallow..:o
But it's true to an extent. Think about it, would you wanna be with someone you have no physical attraction to? -
Heather wrote:
But it's true to an extent. Think about it, would you wanna be with someone you have no physical attraction to?
Nope, :(, but that sounds so mean, well to me it is. -
Pic of guy?
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If you aren't attracted to him, i'd say just stay friends...and that way (if you keep in contact) if things change you can always go after him later.
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You need a physical and mental connection for things to work imo. Don't force yourself to be attracted to him but if it happens naturally then its fine.
I'd give him a shot see what happens. And the wose thing that can happen is you actually like him or you just break things off.
Some interesting info. Interpersonal attraction - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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