Back in January finally worked up the courage to ask out a girl let`s call her T. I`ve had had my eye on for a while. Her response basically amounted to her saying that he parents would not let her date till she was older and saying I was great guy, etc. I`ve talked to her in person and online for the past few weeks and have started to become concerned that I`m more being played for a fool then anything else.
Everytime I see her at parties, I`m always the one who has to ininitate the conversation and most recently has gotten worse, leaving party events without bothering to say goodbye, never seeming to able to commit to plans to be able to see her. AKA her suddenly wanting to delay some group movie night thing to the summer, just because ONE of her close friends can`t come, when she was the one who suggested still hanging out in groups in the first place. Just never seem to anywhere near her priority list, always seems to 20 things more important. Most recently became more worried about this, when some random girl at one party was actually being way more flirty to me, then T, who was the one is actually invited me.
I`m pretty inexperienced with this kinda stuff, so wanted to some other people`s opinion. Though still not looking good ATM, least I think. Just feel like I`m on the hook with her. Alledgely her parents won`t let her go out, but she never really gives me any sign that she did not just say that to just let me down easy.
Everytime I see her at parties, I`m always the one who has to ininitate the conversation and most recently has gotten worse, leaving party events without bothering to say goodbye, never seeming to able to commit to plans to be able to see her. AKA her suddenly wanting to delay some group movie night thing to the summer, just because ONE of her close friends can`t come, when she was the one who suggested still hanging out in groups in the first place. Just never seem to anywhere near her priority list, always seems to 20 things more important. Most recently became more worried about this, when some random girl at one party was actually being way more flirty to me, then T, who was the one is actually invited me.
I`m pretty inexperienced with this kinda stuff, so wanted to some other people`s opinion. Though still not looking good ATM, least I think. Just feel like I`m on the hook with her. Alledgely her parents won`t let her go out, but she never really gives me any sign that she did not just say that to just let me down easy.