No it's not wrong, maybe morally but it's natural to be aroused. I'm sure your gf would be a bit annoyed, but if you tell her it's meaningless and you love her she may not he so concerned.

a lot of people watch porn, including those in relationships, it doesn't make you unfaithful or untrustworthy, just normal

Idk, if you feel bad don't do it. Or tell her, maybe you'll feel better.

Porn is a fantasy, it doesn't mean you're cheating. If you were to watch it obsessively to the point where it interfered with your relationship then yeah, it could be a problem, but for now I wouldn't worry about it.

I understand how you feel man, and i say dont worry, its not like your cheating on her, its a natural thing

My boyfriend watches porn and it was something he felt very guilty about and something that I didn't really like. However, I MUCH prefer that he at least tell me. His is for the same reason...he doesn't like the people, he just gets horny. Be honest with her and tell you feel bad.

You shouldnt feel guilty, its just fantasy, aslong as it doesnt develope into anything then who cares?


My girlfriend doesnt like me watching porn but i dont see her except on the weekends either due to work meaning we have to live a long way away from each other, i need soemthing to keep me going during the week, im a stubborn ass and she knows i wont change my habits for her so she just deals with it.

It's understandable that you feel this way. But for some people, maybe your girlfriend, it doesn't matter. I'm pretty sure...no, I know, that my boyfriend watches porn. But I'm okay with it, because I know he has urges that I can't always be around for. So I don't care that he watches porn. He even kinda makes references that he's fine if I watch it. Perhaps your girlfriend would feel the same way. If you want to tell her, bring it up saying something like, I've been thinking about watching...ect. see how she reacts and go from there.

For some people it is normal to feel bad for watching porn, but remember, there is nothing wrong with it, even if in a relationship.

Dw, me and my bf both do it.

we have a lot in common...(name, the fact that we only see our girls on satrday, etc)

more to the point: talk to your gf about it. she *should* be understanding in that you are trying to stop. I am a recovering porn addict as well. you might try doing something else as opposed looking at porn... make a codeword with your gf, and call her every time you feel like watching it, and ask her to distract you(with something nonsexual or it completely defeats the purpose) when you use the specific word. Also, avoid fantasizing. every time you feel your mind wandering to a sexual thought, bounce it away. it's hard as hell, but once you get the hang of it, it will be easier to resist the porn temptation. Its also good to have an accountability partner. Every time you "mess up" tell them. make sure its someone who you can trust wont go spilling it to anyone, and someone who wont guilt you or make fun of you, but also someone who will hold you accountable.

Think of your addiction like a sumo wrestler. the more food you give it(even just mental stimuli can feed it), the bigger it gets. the more you starve it the smaller it gets.

Good Luck!

Is it because I'm not telling her? What will she think of me? I don't do it because I like the people in it, but the fantasy of it. Is it wrong?

To each his own, I say. And guess what? What you're doing is completely not out of the ordinary and is so completely common and normal, healthy even. Many males your age does this and it's very common, like I said. Some people like intimate porn, some like hentai, and there are others. Some females are also into that, as well! It's also expected from most males and there's nothing wrong with that.

However, if you honestly feel uncomfortable with the fact that you're doing it behind her back, then simply tell her. She'll either understand, because you're a guy or she'll overreact -- some people do that. Just understand that you shouldn't be obligated to tell her, because it's just a personal thing for many males and females.

Most of the time, that's the reason why people watch porn in the first place. There's a fantasy in there that many people would like to fulfill. It's not wrong, you're just being like most teenage boys out there.

Good luck!

You are boy so its natural for you to be watching porn..even I'm in a relationship but i still do watch them..even she doesn't know this..this is what i think...others views might be different

nothing wrong with porn. i would feel bad if i had a gf and started feeling emotionally close to the girls in pornos. that weirds me out to think about. some of them are really cute. but i have to wank too. i just have to. i don't know if a gf would put up with that all the time. sometimes it's just business wanking. i just have to.