Ok, so I've been friends with this girl for a while now and have always wanted to ask her out, but never had the confidence so I decided, brashly I must admit, that I should send her a message over facebook basicaly asking her out. That was yesterday and she hasn't replied.

I went onto her profile today and I got the pink error message ('profile unavailable at this time etc') so I panicked and decided that she had blocked me, after a while it let me on but I didn't have the option to see her photo's (under profile pic). So I sent her a message (i still thought she'd blocked me for some reason) saying 'I'm so sorry. I thought you felt the same way'. Then, I don't know why, 'I've removed you from my friends list I won't bother you again'. I never did, I just couldn't, really it wouldn't let me.

Now I'm going to see her on tuesday at school, and I usally sit next to her. Should I still sit there, should I move?

Do you think there's still a chance she'd say yes? she hasn't said no.

Sorry it's so long, I just thought you'de better have the full story. Please reply, I really don't know what to do.

"Well 1st of all asking a girl out on Facebook ain't the best way to ask a girl out. And what if she has not seen the message yet and her profile just messed up. But next time you ask a girl out do not ask her on Facebook. Ask her in person, as they will think you are real confident and give you a better chance at getting told yes."

I know I know, asking a girl out over Facebook is pathetic, but I've tried dozens of times asking her out to her face. I didn't go to well. And she has been on facebook because she's been joining groups.

It Is Me wrote:

So if she has rejected to you with you asking her out face to face, why did you think asking her out on facebook was going to make a difference?

I didn't ask her out to her face, I meant I attempted to ask her out but could never quite manage it (I have no confidence).

It Is Me wrote:

Dude if you want to go out with her you have to take a chance at your 2's relationship. And asking her out in facebook is really not much different than asking her out face to face. You get a yes or a no. But asking her out face to face will help her think that you are confident enough to ask her out.

I know but the problem now is she hasn't replied, so what do I do next time I'm in her lesson? I can't really prentend I didn't message her, and I don't want to just not talk to her.

It seems I'll just have to sit next to her with embarrassment, and spend the entire lesson apologising.

It Is Me wrote:

No, bad idea just do not mention it again. Is their a way to delete messages on Facebook?(never had one i used myspace)
She might mention it though, so try and think of something if she does mention it.

No, once a message is sent it's sent. If she does mention it there's really not much I can say as an excuse. All I could really do is ask her answer (which would be obvious at this point).