Okay, I'm new here, but I really need some advice..
A friend of mine, T, has liked this guy R for like, 6 months. He told her recently-ish that he isn’t interested in her, and he’s said to me and everyone else that he really doesn’t like her. I know of two other girls, L and H, who definitely like him, and am sure there are others. He’s told me that he doesn’t like L&H in that way and never would. In case you haven’t already guessed, I’ve started to really like him. I am absolutely hopeless with guy-stuff. And so don’t know what to do, I really like him, but T would be distraught and hate me forever if she found out. In a way I feel like I deserve it to go well, as I’ve had such shoddy luck in the past. But I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I don’t know how to tell if a guy is into me like that or not, but what’s going on with me and R is we text loads, msn, this holiday saw each other twice (with others) before he went away, but the first time, I said ‘well you need to, cos i am (:’ And he said ‘I will obv try my best then J ‘. And then the second meet-up, he asked me on msn if I was doing anything that day, I said I was meant to be going to town with friends but it’d been cancelled, so he asked me to come town with him and his mate – who I’m close friends with also, (others came as well, but he only said him and his friend), so I said I wasn’t sure, but I’d try. And he then said ‘Well I hope you can come J xxxx’ – even though we were on msn. He says ‘love you’, and we already have some little private ‘things’ (if you get what I mean?). We like the same stuff – films programmes music etc. We get on really really well, and the other day in my msn name I asked if anyone wanted to call, cos’ I was bored, as I’d hoped, he said he would, however I was already on the phone so couldn’t. I really don’t know what to think; as he’s said himself he wishes he could just be mates with a girl without her liking him. And that he can be really flirty sometimes without meaning to. He doesn’t know I like him, but I’m compleeeeetely stuck. What do I do? And Does he like me?
Help!
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A friend of mine, T, has liked this guy R for like, 6 months. He told her recently-ish that he isn’t interested in her, and he’s said to me and everyone else that he really doesn’t like her. I know of two other girls, L and H, who definitely like him, and am sure there are others. He’s told me that he doesn’t like L&H in that way and never would. In case you haven’t already guessed, I’ve started to really like him. I am absolutely hopeless with guy-stuff. And so don’t know what to do, I really like him, but T would be distraught and hate me forever if she found out. In a way I feel like I deserve it to go well, as I’ve had such shoddy luck in the past. But I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. I don’t know how to tell if a guy is into me like that or not, but what’s going on with me and R is we text loads, msn, this holiday saw each other twice (with others) before he went away, but the first time, I said ‘well you need to, cos i am (:’ And he said ‘I will obv try my best then J ‘. And then the second meet-up, he asked me on msn if I was doing anything that day, I said I was meant to be going to town with friends but it’d been cancelled, so he asked me to come town with him and his mate – who I’m close friends with also, (others came as well, but he only said him and his friend), so I said I wasn’t sure, but I’d try. And he then said ‘Well I hope you can come J xxxx’ – even though we were on msn. He says ‘love you’, and we already have some little private ‘things’ (if you get what I mean?). We like the same stuff – films programmes music etc. We get on really really well, and the other day in my msn name I asked if anyone wanted to call, cos’ I was bored, as I’d hoped, he said he would, however I was already on the phone so couldn’t. I really don’t know what to think; as he’s said himself he wishes he could just be mates with a girl without her liking him. And that he can be really flirty sometimes without meaning to. He doesn’t know I like him, but I’m compleeeeetely stuck. What do I do? And Does he like me?
Help!
Clear-xx