same college?

Well, I think you need to think about this calmly. Think about what it is you truly want. Not being with him will hurt, but if you don't want to do the long distance thing, don't force yourself to. It may only make it that much harder. Only do it if you're sure it's something you can work through. Distance is hard and if you know you can't handle it, it's better to end it before you leave. That way, you prevent even more pain from happening.

Either decision is going to be tough. You just have to decide what it is you really want. If you want to be with him, you have to be prepared to deal with the distance. It will be hard. However, if you two really love each other, you can overcome this obstacle. It all comes down to what is best for yourself. No one can tell you what to do. You have to ask yourself if it's worth it to go through the long distance, or if it's better to let go.

Hope this helped. Good luck.

The best thing to do is talk to him about it.

enjoy the time now that you have with him and u really want try to have a long distance relationship, get webcams for the both of you, and try and see each other as much as possible in person or on webcam. hope this helps! and good luck

poetrylover, I can tell you this from first hand experience, but from the guy's view. I fell in love, although at beginning of high school, I swear I would not. She ended up staying at home (She is still in high school) while I moved to different continent for university (University of Wisconsin). We both knew we could not do that long of distance of relationship. We still talked for many months on MSN, Facebook, Skype, etc. However, it was heart breaking for both of us.

I went back during winter break and had a fantastic two weeks with her. However, upon returning I knew the only way I could get through the constant habit of crying myself to sleep and not talking to others, was to give her up. We have not communicated for 2 months now, I still miss her, but I am doing much better now at university. I am able to concentrate, focus, what I came here to do. I know it is a bad ending, as it will probably be for you as well, but I know that there are plenty of others out there. I have met some amazing people, however I kept thinking of her. I think you will be best if you either attend university and move on from him, or you plan on long distance. Make the decision right away, else life will be miserable. The next time I am going back home will be next winter, and I have no idea how I am going to deal with seeing her again. You will have to think of that as well, you will most likely stay friends

Although, one thing she told me before leaving, was for me to go out and have fun, learn experiences at university. This is the only time of your life where there will be thousands of people your age, to make friends with and enjoy good times. Don't let other things stop that. Love Comes Again.

Good luck and Take Care. If you need more, you may message or chat more posts.

If you have any more questions, always feel free to ask. Okay? I wish I would have the possibility of being with her again, but it looks like she is going to stay in Italy...