Friday night I was out with a few friends.
2 guys, one girl plus me (guy). One guy I've known for 6 years, we've been best friends but lately we've been having issues similar to that of the story. Other guy I have met once before at a party, we were fairly chill. Girl I have liked a lot for almost a year, have helped her with cutting, have always been available to talk when she needed it, always up to give her a ride even if it's far away, etc.
We were just chilling and my 6 year friend and female friend went to grab something (we were getting some ecstasy for a friend and for us, trying to find the person). I then asked the other guy if, and I quote myself to the best of memory, 'If you don't mind, could you lay off (Girl) a bit? Cause I like her a lot. If you really want to thats fine I don't care, but yeah'. A bit selfish I know, but I was planning to ask her out today or monday. He seemed chill about it, he said 'Sure, I'll try' and that was that. We had a pretty good night and all was well. I went way out of my way to give her a ride home too, and got her home when she needed to even if it cut my night short.
Skip to tomorrow, my 6-year friend bitched me out for what I said to other guy. Fair enough. He said that I acted like I owned her. Not at all true, nor was it my intentions. My guess is that he didn't hear EXACTLY what I said and therefore didn't hear the part about me being okay with it if other guy really wanted to.
Anyways. He then pulled an insanely dick move and told the girl. She, having heard what I assume was an eschewed version of what I said, got really, really pissed at me. He also told her that I like her. Now she's beyond pissed at me. She won't even let me talk to her and tell her my side of the story, won't even hear out my apologies.
I don't know what the fuck to do. These guys are my closest friends, and now they're both against me. And my plans to ask her out are completely gone thanks to one thing I said that was misinterpreted. I'm really pissed, depressed and confused right now. The girl I am completely infatuated with hates me, my best friend is against me, and I just don't know what I can do.
2 guys, one girl plus me (guy). One guy I've known for 6 years, we've been best friends but lately we've been having issues similar to that of the story. Other guy I have met once before at a party, we were fairly chill. Girl I have liked a lot for almost a year, have helped her with cutting, have always been available to talk when she needed it, always up to give her a ride even if it's far away, etc.
We were just chilling and my 6 year friend and female friend went to grab something (we were getting some ecstasy for a friend and for us, trying to find the person). I then asked the other guy if, and I quote myself to the best of memory, 'If you don't mind, could you lay off (Girl) a bit? Cause I like her a lot. If you really want to thats fine I don't care, but yeah'. A bit selfish I know, but I was planning to ask her out today or monday. He seemed chill about it, he said 'Sure, I'll try' and that was that. We had a pretty good night and all was well. I went way out of my way to give her a ride home too, and got her home when she needed to even if it cut my night short.
Skip to tomorrow, my 6-year friend bitched me out for what I said to other guy. Fair enough. He said that I acted like I owned her. Not at all true, nor was it my intentions. My guess is that he didn't hear EXACTLY what I said and therefore didn't hear the part about me being okay with it if other guy really wanted to.
Anyways. He then pulled an insanely dick move and told the girl. She, having heard what I assume was an eschewed version of what I said, got really, really pissed at me. He also told her that I like her. Now she's beyond pissed at me. She won't even let me talk to her and tell her my side of the story, won't even hear out my apologies.
I don't know what the fuck to do. These guys are my closest friends, and now they're both against me. And my plans to ask her out are completely gone thanks to one thing I said that was misinterpreted. I'm really pissed, depressed and confused right now. The girl I am completely infatuated with hates me, my best friend is against me, and I just don't know what I can do.
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