GF- First time

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 3:15pm

Okay, so me and my gf took it to the next level last night, and I fingered her.. (It's her first time doing anything sexual, my first time doing things with a girl).

Well, anyways, she described the feeling as not being quite satisfied, that she was unsated and wanted more. This was after two sessions of fairly long fingering time.

My question is to the girls-- is it normal to not feel satisfied, or did I just not quite get her to orgasm? Because I think I might've made her orgasm a few times, but since she has no prior experience she didn't know.

ivaiva · Apr 25th 2010, 3:32pm

I doubt that you gave her few orgasms if it was your's first time.
Also, if that would happen she would knew. She just would.
And, if she would have few orgasms she would be satisfied probably.
You should talk to her and ask her this question, and don't be upset if you didn't make her orgasm, you will learn, it's completelyy normal for young couples, you can't know everything your first time.

Trillium · Apr 25th 2010, 4:36pm

ivaiva wrote:

I doubt that you gave her few orgasms if it was your's first time.
Also, if that would happen she would knew. She just would.
And, if she would have few orgasms she would be satisfied probably.
You should talk to her and ask her this question, and don't be upset if you didn't make her orgasm, you will learn, it's completelyy normal for young couples, you can't know everything your first time.

Perfectly said

Nymous2 · Apr 25th 2010, 6:36pm

Gooeyswat wrote:

Perfectly said

agreed

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 10:33pm

Well the problem is, she is completely ignorant to her own body. She has never masturbated, has never done any sort of experimentation with herself, and knows little to nothing about the female body and stimulation. It may have been my first time, but I knew exactly where to go to stimulate her-- clitoris and G-spot. And she was moaning pretty hard and she described it as her body going completely tense a few times.

Point is, I knew exactly what I was doing and she had absolutely no idea, and I am almost positive until she has had more experience she won't have any idea what an orgasm is compared to any other sexual sensations, since this was her first time with any sort of stimulation.

ivaiva · Apr 25th 2010, 10:45pm

asoiafdude wrote:

she won't have any idea what an orgasm is compared to any other sexual sensations, since this was her first time with any sort of stimulation.

Oh she would. She would.
Do you think you could have an orgasm (imagine there is no ejaculation) and not notice it? Well?

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 10:58pm

Back when I was starting out and I masturbated I had no idea when I experienced an orgasm until I had done it several times.

Oh, and quick question lol... Is the pubic bone right above the vagina..???

ivaiva · Apr 25th 2010, 11:06pm

Pubic bone is only bone you can feel between belly and clitoris.
And you maybe didn't know what that is (orgasm) but you couldn't miss the feeling.

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 11:08pm

So if I was fingering her and was touching the roof of her vagina, I would be able to feel the pubic bone?

ivaiva · Apr 25th 2010, 11:11pm

Oh you mean from inside! Hm, Idk, probably, but if you could feel pubic bone from inside it maybe you did it too powerful.
Anyway, it's always better to focus on clit, you don't even have o have fingers IN her. Sliding them over slit and clit is usually the best for most women.

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 11:13pm

Well she was fully clothed, and it was my first time, and I kept losing the clit... So I went inside for a while, and I had the palm of my hand on her mons pubis, and the fingers point down her thigh, so I was starting with my finger at the roof, so I guess that could explain it.

And next time I'll have to get her to show me so I can see what the hell I'm doing haha.

Tanner · Apr 25th 2010, 11:15pm

Google bro, Thats what it is for

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 11:17pm

Oh believe me, I have all the background knowledge possible. But it's a lot different when you're doing in blind for your first time and it's not anything like you expected :p

ivaiva · Apr 25th 2010, 11:21pm

asoiafdude wrote:

And next time I'll have to get her to show me so I can see what the hell I'm doing haha.

Yeah, good idea

Just whatever makes her comfortable.
But I'm not really sure you can feel pubic bone bernard-preston.com/images/female-pelvis-pubic-bone-pain.gif from inside of vagina... :rolleyes:

You had your palm on her pubic bone, that's for sure. But could you feel the same bone from inside - that I don't know. According to picture there is a lot of "material" between vagina and pubis.

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 11:28pm

That's exactly why I was confused...

Or wait, apparently the G-spot swells up when it is stimulated-- is it possible that is what I was feeling, the swollen up g-spot? Since I know it is on the roof an inch or so back.

ivaiva · Apr 25th 2010, 11:32pm

asoiafdude wrote:

That's exactly why I was confused...

Or wait, apparently the G-spot swells up when it is stimulated-- is it possible that is what I was feeling, the swollen up g-spot? Since I know it is on the roof an inch or so back.

It couldn't be just her vagina?
Maybe it is co called g spot, but it shouldn't feel like a bone.
But I think it's impossible that us 2 realized what did you felt in your girlfriend's vagina and I suppose it's not even so important, do define what that was. So I give up

asoiafdude · Apr 25th 2010, 11:34pm

Haha yeah, you're right. I was just curious :rolleyes:

Cass Cass · Apr 26th 2010, 1:10am

asoiafdude wrote:

Well the problem is, she is completely ignorant to her own body. She has never masturbated, has never done any sort of experimentation with herself, and knows little to nothing about the female body and stimulation. It may have been my first time, but I knew exactly where to go to stimulate her-- clitoris and G-spot. And she was moaning pretty hard and she described it as her body going completely tense a few times.

Point is, I knew exactly what I was doing and she had absolutely no idea, and I am almost positive until she has had more experience she won't have any idea what an orgasm is compared to any other sexual sensations, since this was her first time with any sort of stimulation.

My god. Then how does she know what being satisfied means then? :rolleyes:

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