people are so stupid

I don't really mind being an out bi. It sucks sometimes but it has some good sides to it like you don't have to look around for a guy or girl cause once your out (at least in my case) you learn who all the gays and bi's are. Plus I don't have to worry about my parents figuring out about one of my boy friends!

It's actually fine for me, especially since I started Sixth Form because all the scrotes have left.
Most people in my year seem to be pretty open minded and aren't bothered. Then again, we do have quite possibly the gayest/bisexual year ever... people just keep coming out o.o

Then again I'm more 80:20 (Girls:Boys) so it might be easier to accept.
The only trouble I get are from the scrotes that are still at school and don't know I'm not actually completely gay, but I don't really see them much anyway, and from my friends bringing up past stuff I've done with guys when we're just messing around and having banter. Although it wasn't so great when I first came out a few years back.

I suppose I'm rather lucky, especially as I go an all-boys school so it's bound to be full of insecure close-minded fuckwits.

I have been thinking seriously about telling one of my friends that I'm bi.... Maybe the one I like as he is pretty open minded. People are not exactly open minded in my shithole school (St flannans fucking shout out, on the off chance anyone else goes there, the VERY VERY off chance:wink:). I also have a friend whos openly bi, so she would probably understand. My friends... dont get me wrong, they're great, just not really too mature apart from one or two.. ahhhh, I dunno... This is eating me up inside!! Im leaving this fucking place in seven months.. so is it worth the risk? I was seriously harrassed the past three years ( nothing to do with sexuality, just looking like Harry fucking Potter) and it started to ease up this year, so I dont feel like sticking my hand into the fire again. Also, everytime I do anything my sister finds out and decides to rat me out. Drinking, Smoking, Drug Use, My first girlfriend..... my parents discovered all that through my sister. Its not that my friends would gossip but its easy to let shit slip....

AAAAARRRRRGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!! Come out and maybe, just maybe get a boyfriend
or wait till college and play it safe? Sorry if this comes across as a bit of a rant... Im highly strung just now...

As of recently, I came out fully as bisexual to everyone I know. So far haven't had any issues with people, family, friends giving me crap for it. It feels great to be out and it opens up my options by being out.

agreed... for female bi's yes haha ^^^

why do we need labels? I am not gay not bi not str8 I am just whatever I wanna be at the time! I have different feelings at different times! I don't think I am weird just not ready to be labeled!!:angeldevil:

I really want a boy FWB right now. Or a girl. Or both.
There's this one guy who's really REALLY hot but he's straight.
so that's what being a bisexual teen is like for me right now.

I'm new here I've been bisexual since I was 10yrs old. I have a boyfriend & we have been happily dating for almost 3yrs. He is bisexual as well. I love him so much, I want to marry him & have his kids someday. But sometimes I really want the company of a girl so bad that I crave it. Is this oka or not? I've been kinda in love with my bestfriend for a long time. But she lives 4hrs away. I'm confused cause I love both my boyfriend & her.. I can picture a future with both of them. So does anyone have advice?

i believe that if every bisexial/gay person came out to people and stood up to who they truely where then it wouldnt seem as something to be embarrassed of but something to be proud of about yourself.. im not gay or bisexual but i know what it feels like to want to come out with something that you know you might be judged on but i did and acted proud about it.. no one can take pride from you :)

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woah your in a very difficult position here! maybe try talk to her and see if she would like two guys for husbands instead of one haha! but it would take the agreement of both of them for this so you would have to talk to them both individually first and tell them how your feeling and see what they think about it and yes it will be hard talking to your boyfriend about it but if your truely feeling this way then it is to your best interest that you talk to him first and then your friend girl. that would be my approach to it :confused: i hope this helped but yea hard position your in

Honestly for me it was easy because my friends accepted it but for my family it was a lot harder.

oh true family would be very hard i guess

its alright i guess