I know the girl I like is desperate for a boyfriend, just I'm having some trouble getting close to her. She's on my swim team.
5 weeks ago, her crush asked her out. He, in my opinion, was a complete a-hole for doing it cuz he knew me, and another person on my team liked her too, and he didn't even like her until he found out she was desperate for him. So I remained liking her throughout their relationship. Last week they broke up, and I'm pretty sure the other guy on my team who liked her too is still liking her, and we're chill about it. I could ask her out except she thinks I'm annoying because I mess her up during practice because I sometimes do the wrong thing. I'm perfectly fine with her when we aren't practicing, but that time is very limitted. I also am horrible at talking over Facebook. I always say something stupid. Recently I texted her and she didn't respond... Which was odd because she responds to EVERYTHING I send her (and yes, she knew I liked her). I'm not sure if she knows I like her now.
There are only 2 boys in the group who would actually go out with her. Me and my friend who also likes her. Since she is homeschooled, she never sees any other boys besides us and her ex.
What do I need? I need advice on how to spend more time with her. Also, I need to figure out if I should stay in her lane and talk to her during practice (shes okay with it) and risk messing up the workout amd annoying her, or go in a different lane and allow my friend to talk to her.
Thanks
5 weeks ago, her crush asked her out. He, in my opinion, was a complete a-hole for doing it cuz he knew me, and another person on my team liked her too, and he didn't even like her until he found out she was desperate for him. So I remained liking her throughout their relationship. Last week they broke up, and I'm pretty sure the other guy on my team who liked her too is still liking her, and we're chill about it. I could ask her out except she thinks I'm annoying because I mess her up during practice because I sometimes do the wrong thing. I'm perfectly fine with her when we aren't practicing, but that time is very limitted. I also am horrible at talking over Facebook. I always say something stupid. Recently I texted her and she didn't respond... Which was odd because she responds to EVERYTHING I send her (and yes, she knew I liked her). I'm not sure if she knows I like her now.
There are only 2 boys in the group who would actually go out with her. Me and my friend who also likes her. Since she is homeschooled, she never sees any other boys besides us and her ex.
What do I need? I need advice on how to spend more time with her. Also, I need to figure out if I should stay in her lane and talk to her during practice (shes okay with it) and risk messing up the workout amd annoying her, or go in a different lane and allow my friend to talk to her.
Thanks