All the girls in my family tell my brother he's cute, because he is. But there's NO attraction whatsoever, it's just a compliment.

Why should it be any different in your case?

if she is cute why not let ppl know

ITs fine,
I often tell my sisters they look good, because I think they do and theres nothing wrong with that.

I'm loving the RayWilliamJohnson reference!

As for your question - I do not think it's wrong. As long as you're not after a relationship with her, you're good. All it is, is that you're able to recognize that she's attractive, but you don't want anything sexual with her. That's just fine. No need to worry, sweetie

And by correct definition you mean a cousins child witch I believe is correct, or a cousin of a cousin in witch I see someone could get confused?

word choice, dude. don't say she's cute. or don't say anything at all. if you think she's attractive, your best bet is to keep it to yourself. obviously, people don't react well to it.

nahh, they're making it worse than it really is ( which it isnt)

PhillyStorm™ wrote:

Although you say you dont like her that way it seems clear that you do in some way.

All we do we do for a reason, even the choice of words. It is clear to me that this is causing you anxiety. It is bothering you and you are second guessing yourself. That only means that which you are trying to deny is trying to make itself to the surface. That in itself is not the worst part of it for you. For you the anxiety is in that others can see it too. That others can decipher your code, that others will see that part of you you don't want them to see. And the anxiety is in not that they see it too but that they will bring upon you some sort or repercussion. Some sort of punishment which is really what you are trying to avoid, since early on in your life you were taught of 'how wrong incest is.'

Great analasis Dr. Fucktard. Don't even try, you obviously just keep relating one thing to another that is completly different. Prove me wrong.

Yea there's nuthing wrong with u saying ur cusins cute
sometimes I say my cusins r cute n there's nuthin wrong as long as ur not sexually attracted to ur cus Like saying u want to bust a hill Billy moment n bone ur cus bit if there no sexual attractions there's no problem with complimenting ur cusin

Ah ignore them, not like you're sexually attracted to them.

I won't lie when I see an attractive person. I'll always say (at least to myself) that he/she is hot. I'm not going to do anything, I just know that they're good looking.

I'm sure you might have an ugly relative, is there anything wrong with commenting on their looks? I guess if you don't walk up to them and say "Gosh XXXX, you're hideous!" then it's awwwwrite.