How bout you wait till you're legal first. :\

Legal for another woman? wtf?

Have you tried sites, like plentyoffish.com ?
Gay clubs probably the best, but saying as i am in the same position, i completely understand.

Try a gay club. If they won't let you in for your age, fake your ID, or try a dating site. OKCupid, LesbianPersonals etc. are good general ones, and there are niche ones for fans of certain things, certain niche fetishes, etc.

RockOn! wrote:

Legal for another woman? wtf?

Legal to have sex.

She never mentioned sex. You know a lot of people have bfs and gfs long before they reach the legal age to have sex, right? There's no law against going out with someone...


And yeah, try gay clubs/bars, and maybe a dating site. Dunno where else you'd find someone where you'd know they were gay/bi without having to ask.

And good luck

Im the same and I live in a small city so there are no glay clubs here atleast that I've yet to see and I've always kind of wondered where to find a community. Also not being fully out except to chosen friends can be hard to. If there is a gay club where your at I would go unless your underage, then I would probably try to get involved in the community if your town has any at all like pride and what not. Word of mouth works great to you can find out who's bi or possibly a lesbian. ;D

Anonymism, faking your ID is stupid, and will land you in deep shit.


To the OP, there are plenty of gay sites around on the internet, though be careful as there are sexual predators. I would take Rock On's advice and head for plentyo'fish.

I've faked my idea many times you just have to use it in a place that doesn't care so long as the picture is relatively similar to you.

My girlfriend I met at a party and she is best friend's with this girl I was friend's with ex-girlfriend. She was straight but she liked me a lot so she came to the club one night when she knew I was going to be there and it went from there.

You just have to put yourself out there!

Hey- don't sweat it. We're in the same boat. not really fun, I know- but still, you're not alone, so if you wanna talk, thats cool. if you figure this stuff out, lemme know. haha