Hi, first post, I registered for this site because I feel like a loser and I need some guidance.
I am an 18 year old male, going to be 19 in two months. I am still a virgin, I have never had a girlfriend for more then 3 days, and only kissed one girl.
This type of thread has probably been seen a thousand times before, and I am expecting the copy/paste 'it will come when it comes'.
I don't understand what to do with my life and chicks...at all..I am a full time computer technician, I make pretty decent pay overall, I drive a completely done-out Green 92 civic Si and it is the nicest car out of any guy in my age group around my town. I know everyone, young or old, you have met me before and probably liked me. I only make friends not enemies, I can make anyone laugh eventually, and I'm only going to talk about something if I know about it, instead of making shit up.
Every chick I have met likes me and enjoys hanging out, I am mainly in with the stoner crowd as I have a connection to every type of drug out there.
I've always been a bigger guy so for the last 5 months I have worked my ass off to lose 74 lbs of weight and 6" off my waist. This was utterly fucking pointless as my body is covered in disgusting stretch marks from my previous fattiness. I'm still pretty big too, while every other fucking guy is skinny as hell with ripped abs..all my friends are jacked
I guess I can't really blame a girl for not wanting to touch me, I am just a nice guy with a nice car, I can look down my road left or right and see ten single guys who like 10x better then I do in my town, so what chance do I have?
I just don't know what I'm doing wrong...I try and approach chicks, the ones who don't laugh at me and like to chill get completely put off when I go for anything more then friendship (Not like touching her, like going for a coffee...)
For a long time being a virgin never bothered me...hey theres always tommorrow, or maybe I will have a good night at a party sometime? Nope...I am out of high school now, I have lost my teenage love life years in the gutter...and now as I become an adult I see what I lost.
I live with my two best friends, a 18 yr old guy and 17 yr old girl. Spending time with them is one of the few things that keeps me happy...it is just hard because they are the best couple you could ever see. Being able to have someone to hold...or hug and kiss even when everything in your life is shit.
I know it is just sex, and I know it is just dating, they say you will go through 5-10 'loves' before finding the love of your life, but if I can't even get a girl to touch or kiss me...how can I hope for something like a relationship.
Sorry for the huge wall of text post...I just needed to vent...being a virgin while everyone around me enjoys this amazing thing called love is destroying me...I can't enjoy my job or my car, and getting high isn't 1/10th the feeling of having a girl smile at me...even if she doesnt like me
I am an 18 year old male, going to be 19 in two months. I am still a virgin, I have never had a girlfriend for more then 3 days, and only kissed one girl.
This type of thread has probably been seen a thousand times before, and I am expecting the copy/paste 'it will come when it comes'.
I don't understand what to do with my life and chicks...at all..I am a full time computer technician, I make pretty decent pay overall, I drive a completely done-out Green 92 civic Si and it is the nicest car out of any guy in my age group around my town. I know everyone, young or old, you have met me before and probably liked me. I only make friends not enemies, I can make anyone laugh eventually, and I'm only going to talk about something if I know about it, instead of making shit up.
Every chick I have met likes me and enjoys hanging out, I am mainly in with the stoner crowd as I have a connection to every type of drug out there.
I've always been a bigger guy so for the last 5 months I have worked my ass off to lose 74 lbs of weight and 6" off my waist. This was utterly fucking pointless as my body is covered in disgusting stretch marks from my previous fattiness. I'm still pretty big too, while every other fucking guy is skinny as hell with ripped abs..all my friends are jacked
I guess I can't really blame a girl for not wanting to touch me, I am just a nice guy with a nice car, I can look down my road left or right and see ten single guys who like 10x better then I do in my town, so what chance do I have?
I just don't know what I'm doing wrong...I try and approach chicks, the ones who don't laugh at me and like to chill get completely put off when I go for anything more then friendship (Not like touching her, like going for a coffee...)
For a long time being a virgin never bothered me...hey theres always tommorrow, or maybe I will have a good night at a party sometime? Nope...I am out of high school now, I have lost my teenage love life years in the gutter...and now as I become an adult I see what I lost.
I live with my two best friends, a 18 yr old guy and 17 yr old girl. Spending time with them is one of the few things that keeps me happy...it is just hard because they are the best couple you could ever see. Being able to have someone to hold...or hug and kiss even when everything in your life is shit.
I know it is just sex, and I know it is just dating, they say you will go through 5-10 'loves' before finding the love of your life, but if I can't even get a girl to touch or kiss me...how can I hope for something like a relationship.
Sorry for the huge wall of text post...I just needed to vent...being a virgin while everyone around me enjoys this amazing thing called love is destroying me...I can't enjoy my job or my car, and getting high isn't 1/10th the feeling of having a girl smile at me...even if she doesnt like me