Just going round for sex!

sam-d-man · Jun 12th 2010, 1:30pm

Ok so I met this girl at this house party and we hit it off staight away, infact we more than hit it off, both drunk and we were kissing, playing with each other all night
Met up a second time just went cinema and meal, didnt even kiss or anything
And recently we been chatting again and it's got really heated, texting till late at night, intimate things and she's invited me over next weekend, both of us want to have some fun and I think that is pretty much it!

Is it ok just to go round someones house meeting for the 3rd time both having the main aim of sex? I know people do it from the first sight of each other but I'm just wondering if you guys think its a good thing to do?
Pretty odd I know but I'm a virgin still so not really got the experiance, hence I'm posting this!

Thanks

Nick. · Jun 12th 2010, 6:07pm

Is it alright to you? If so, that's nice if not, don't do it. Up to you(!).

DeaExMachina · Jun 12th 2010, 6:26pm

Sure, you both want it nothing wrong with that. Sex doesn't have to have any deeper meaning than pleasure. Just make sure you bring a condom and/or a morning after pill.

sam-d-man · Jun 13th 2010, 12:06am

Nick. wrote:

Is it alright to you? If so, that's nice if not, don't do it. Up to you(!).

Yeah I'd say I'd happily go round there! Just she is going to uni in a few months I'm going into full time work, just seems like a dead end trip, but hey could do some fun!

Cass Cass · Jun 13th 2010, 2:26am

Have fun use a condom

TPM · Jun 13th 2010, 4:56am

Don't wanna go all preacher on ya, but having sex the third time ur with someone is a bit...well whorish. I think that its fine to have sex before marriage, if and only if you actually know the person you're doing. So wait in my opinion.

TextilesGirl · Jun 13th 2010, 6:14pm

TPM wrote:

Don't wanna go all preacher on ya, but having sex the third time ur with someone is a bit...well whorish. I think that its fine to have sex before marriage, if and only if you actually know the person you're doing. So wait in my opinion.

its not whorish, it's a guy being a guy and having needs and a girl wanting him. so what if theyre going to hook up, enough people do it.

i say just go for it have a bit of fun just make sure she knows it'll be no strings fun!

sam-d-man · Jun 14th 2010, 12:03am

TextilesGirl wrote:

its not whorish, it's a guy being a guy and having needs and a girl wanting him. so what if theyre going to hook up, enough people do it.

i say just go for it have a bit of fun just make sure she knows it'll be no strings fun!

The thing is I'm not sure if it is no strings attached, I doubt it is seeing as she is going uni in a few months, summer fun I'd say!

ayoungguyoncam · Jun 14th 2010, 1:43am

nothing wrong with it

sam-d-man · Jun 14th 2010, 1:47am

Thanks for the reassurance guys!

greasemonky89 · Jun 14th 2010, 5:29am

Do what ever feels right in the moment.

armyforthebroken · Jun 14th 2010, 6:10am

Well, it's my job to say that if it's a mutual feeling that's shared among the both of you, then it's fine.

However, I think that since you are still a virgin, you might want to wait until you find the right person. Unless, of course, you don't give a rat's ass about whoever you lose it to (which is alright!)

Just know that if it's something that you feel ready to do, then it's alright to do so.

sam-d-man · Jun 14th 2010, 12:37pm

armyforthebroken wrote:

Well, it's my job to say that if it's a mutual feeling that's shared among the both of you, then it's fine.

However, I think that since you are still a virgin, you might want to wait until you find the right person. Unless, of course, you don't give a rat's ass about whoever you lose it to (which is alright!)

Just know that if it's something that you feel ready to do, then it's alright to do so.

A Message from TeenHut's agony aunt from the looks of things, thanks!
It's not that I'm someone who doesn't care who I have sex with, but I'm not someone who's going to wait till their married or wait for THE ONE!!!!!!

OnEMesSduPKiD · Jun 14th 2010, 4:04pm

sam-d-man wrote:

A Message from TeenHut's agony aunt from the looks of things, thanks!
It's not that I'm someone who doesn't care who I have sex with, but I'm not someone who's going to wait till their married or wait for THE ONE!!!!!!

Ouch >.>

jack8613 · Jun 14th 2010, 5:13pm

Someone finally says the realistic truth. Congratulations.

Urdreamz · Jun 14th 2010, 5:37pm

go for it!

sam-d-man · Jun 15th 2010, 10:33pm

jack8613 wrote:

Someone finally says the realistic truth. Congratulations.

Who?????

Sadly it's not happening anymore on sunday! As it's fathers day and her family are going out together! another time!

sam-d-man · Jun 18th 2010, 2:17pm

looks like my luck might just come a day sooner

coming round tomorrow, will update how it goes! Any tips guys????

Gipo · Jun 18th 2010, 2:32pm

Are you a guy? If yes just go and have sex.

bbish520 · Jun 18th 2010, 4:17pm

it depends on you since everyone has their own P.O.V

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