both. But for me, personality is a little higher. I date this really dorky guyanese kid. Have been with him for 8 months and I'm completely in love with him.
He has an AMAZING personality. And we seem to be perfect for eachother.

Being a man how i can impress agirl

None of them matter when you didn't broke the ice with them.

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By being a man.

The only exception to this is if for some reason, the female is into "gurly" guys.

well who's hot who's respectful who makes me feel great who is who's cute I guess it's all together imo.

well you obviously have to be attracted to someone as it is what differs them from being a friend, however the personality is the key thing.
Like theres this guy im getting to know and when i first met him i was'nt attracted to him at all! but as i get to know him more and more, he's grown on me and now i think he's beautiful lol =D

to me, i like it when a guy is really sweet and funny. but looks don't really matter to me unless they're dead ugly, and not a lot of ppl are.

Both. Personality mostly but I can't be with someone who disgusts me.

Both but a lot more on personality. It's most important to be emotionally attracted but you also need to be physically attracted. A guy doesn't have to be gorgeous [my ex is fucking ugly] but there's always gotta be something I like about his looks like hair, smile, height, etc.

Personality is the most important, although a good appearance is a good start- like you are clean, well dressed etc. You don't need to be really handsome just a nice guy that shows he does take a bit of time over his appearance You can get a girl by being sweet and funny x

Both definately

Both, obvs more personality, but they'd have to take care of their appearance.

Looking clean does matter but I think a good personality beats good looks. Hey I'm really digging this chick who isn't the most physically appealing but her great sense of humor and honesty really attracts me.

definitely personality! but being yourself is the best way - don't try to be someone youre not to pick up girls - it's just stupid, and most women can tell if youre trying too hard, so you'll just look like an idiot women appreciate sincerity, but you have to be clean and presentable - NO girl is gonna fall for a half-drunk guy who smells of piss no matter HOW nice his personality is.

hope that helps

I'm not gonna say appearance isn't important at all because it is.
Although, when I met my boyfriend, I wasn't amazed by his looks. I was amazed by his personality and I still am.
So, I'm gonna have to go with personality.
In my opinion, it would take a mighty shallow person to say appearance but maybe that's just me.

I personally can't see how many people could date someone that they didn't find attractive.
I'm gonna have to say both though.

Both.

Personality personality.
Personality is key. For my boyfriend, I love the way he looks, but even if he didn't look good to me, I wouldn't care. I talk to him, not his looks. Honestly, I think the reason I like the way he looks is because of his personality if that makes sense. But anyway, most will say personality.

honestly, I wonder if girls really do like the personality more than the looks cause I know of girls who are with crappy bf's and they always treat them like crud. The reason that they are with them is cause they look like Orlando Bloom, but then I see girls who are with average Joe's and they are the happiest people on the planet and are other engaged/married to them

so in reality, I think that it depends on the girl that you are falling for