Search Results

well, today i was trying to get some information about her and i found out that shes not really in very good sets, 5/6 for english, 6/6 for maths and 4/5 for french. I mean she is really popular and she just seems like the kind of person who doesent care about their grades and just about being popular and thats it, shes just the same as all the other girls. I had never thought about it before, but I care about it and if i do get into a relationship then I will care about it. I'm not over the top…

So yesterday I was passing by and I saw her on her own carrying a few books etc and I could feel I was about to say "hi" and then blah, I smiled at her, she blushed and smiled back and we walked by each other again. What I think is weird is that last year she liked me and smiled at me for a few months, then there was a period of nothing then she smiled at me a couple times then stopped then she admitted she thought i was cute, now after the summer, and im back she smiles at me again. I just woul…

thanks very much everyone for the advice, I think that i should get to know her ona friends level before i try to take it further, ill make sure i tell you how it works out. By the way i saw her today she was carrying some artwork so that is something we have in common. Edd

Hi, Im 15 and im interested in a girl a year older than me, however she is also an inch taller than me (or its her hair) and she is really popular and has guys hanging around her a lot. She is currently not in a relationship so maybe now is the time. I've asked friends and others and apparently she thinks im cute and she does smile at me and smile back. I hav'nt talked to her yet but im passing by her a lot. I think that even though she is popular maybe she doesent care so much about me being yo…

thanks for the reply, but what i think might sway her mind a lot is other people making fun of her, but maybe if that is what she cares more about then shes not worth it to me. Edd

hi ryan, im sorry for what has happened to you but don't worry anybody in your position would react similarly, theres nothing wrong with you or anybody else who has been through what you have, it only shows that you cared a lot about your mother and your father and even your step-dad. Think about your parents, they put a massive effort into bringing you up, keeping you alive, feeding you playing with you, do you think they would have though it all to be wasted, no they wanted you to grow up and …

Hey guys, so yeah would any girls want to go out with a guy who is a year or more younger and an inch or two shorter. Basically im asking this question because I'm not really the average height in fact im quite far below it. And there is this girl, unfortunately a year older but she is quite small herself but about an inch taller (or its her hair). I talked toa few of her friends and they said they said she thinks im cute and she knows i like her but shes one of those popular girls, she seems li…

I'd say talk with him about it, he'l want to, and he'l also have noticed that school is ending soon and you will be parting. Don't be afraid to discuss important things with your boyfriend because he will be feeling the same way. It depends how far away you are, i mean are you going abroad or something, because you can still see each other quite easily if its an hour drive or so. Is it a familly vacation? Do your parents know of your relationship with him, maybe they will sympathize and let you …

If you think about it, we are all free individuals, free to choose our favourite colour, our favourite clothes, so why should we not have the freedom to choose who we want to go out with. However if she is in a SERIOUS relationship then you back out or things can get a bit messy. I hope this all goes well for you, Good luck Edd

try having a "serious" talk with him and suss your problem out. Its hard if you are in a co-dependant relationship so someone has to take the stand and it seems your boyfriend is probably going through something, was he always like this? He seems a bit possessive you should'nt have to change or do something different to yourself that is out of the norm for you both to remain in a relationship, the point is that you both love each other for the way you both are. I'd say, through seeing other peop…

I think it would have been best to have her give her number to you which leaves you in control and lets face it waiting for a call is really crappy. How old are you and her. Do you ever see her and where? Just try to strike conversation with her, be funny, considerate but don't try too hard to impress or you will look a bit needy and desperate which can be seen as very unatractive to many girls. I'm only 14 so i have a long time to have a girlfriend at some point, i hope everything goes well for…

well, if you really want to be with him then stop, what he thinks is flirting, with other guys. Which i think is kind of true because to a guy you have to look in a different perspective, they think that when they are with a girl they are the one forever and etc, they already feel to jump into a relationship. Whilst girls tend to spend longer over a person to decide whether they would like to be in a relationship with him. Ofcourse im a boy so thats just how i see it. Edd

what im trying to get across is obviously you love him and you want to be with him, but it doesent seem that he really loves you back, or maybe hes not showing it in the right form, so just talk to him about it but i'd say let him go, it will do you good, him, and your familly as well.

We can't really put thorough judgement upon your situation because we don't know you or your boyfriend but by what you say, he seems to have quite a possessive personallity, threatening to break up with you means he is not as dedicated as you are, and i think that if don't want to cause anymore trouble then leave him but if you want to stick with him, then you can't only talk to him, you have to discuss it with your familly and everyone come together otherwise more fights will start and then som…

thanks very much confuzzled that was the point i was going to get across. I'm sorry to the some of those here older than me that want to "have a go at me" because I don't know, I'm just finding my way through because i'm new to this. I'm doing what naturally I am inclined to do and theres nothing i can do to stop that feeling, its nature. Is it that you want to be miserable to me, do you enjoy being harsh to new people, because thats the impression i got from my first thread here from a couple o…

I don't really understand what is going on, she had a boyfriend and yet she said she wanted to go out with me and she always looking at me and smiling, she doesent do it to anyone else cand shes not using me because she does it everytime she sees me, and everytime she sees me her boyfriend is not there, is she respecting the fact she has a boyfriend, or is he just looking for someone new, (ie planning to lose her current boyfriend)? I'm a little confused about whats going on, and i'm not that st…

its not all that obvious that the girl is not interested, remembering as you said you are both very shy, well i say you need a sudden burst of confidence with her and things should get better. Call her, text whatever you can, and possibly get "reports" from your brother if she is going out with anyone else. I agree if you live quite close you should still be able to go out with each other as long as you keep contact with her and make sure she is not lonely. Hope it all goes well Edd

I, too am in your position but from the guy's perspective. Well, I hear that some girls find it cute for a guy to be a bit shy. I think that when i talk to the girl i like i'l pretend she is one of my friends but talk differently ofcourse. I hope we all get over this

Thanks for the replies everyone. I heard the other day though, through some of her friends that the relationship she is in is dying. I hardly ever see them together, during lunch they're usually nearly on opposite ends of the room and I just never see her with him except the first time. What I forgot to tell you was that she sort of wanted to go out with me when i first came (30 weeks ago) but i think it was more of a joke to her own year, (especially the boys), well maybe she was serious about …

so could someone help me?